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  1. Dean Raymond

    Post breakup

    Time is a great healer. Getting back involved in the things that lit you up before the relationship, taking time to breathe or go to serene places, and being around friends more will help.
  2. Dean Raymond

    Using Tinder here in America

    Would have to see your profile man. Surprising that you aren't getting any matches at all
  3. Dean Raymond

    Is it worth dating a very attractive woman?

    Absolutely if that's what you want from your dating life. Guys gawk and hit on women even if they are not extremely attractive anyway. The level of attraction and chemistry that you have with her should be the determining factor. Anything else outside of that you don't control.
  4. Dean Raymond

    Need a bit of help, and advice in two major areas.

    Club game is my forte. If I knew how to attach videos to this thread I would. Game in general (and especially night game) requires you to be unleashed and completely out of your head as the basis of 1. conveying a good vibe and having access to your peak social capabilities; and 2.Getting women...
  5. Dean Raymond

    game in a social circle setting?

    Ask open questions like what else she does in her spare time, does she drink, if she prefers beach or forest. This is a form of qualification. See if she reciprocates by asking you questions, and also if she invests into the conversation. If she seems open and wanting to stick around to talk to...
  6. Dean Raymond

    Does anyone have an experience with London as a city for daygame?

    Yes mate, English born and bred close to London. I would say to play a game of more abundance in London and totally unleash. Shoreditch and Soho can be good for night game as it's high traffic and women more open to meeting/flirting.
  7. Dean Raymond

    Is ANY dating coach actually effective?

    The RIGHT coach can be very helpful. He must be experiences and actually able to attract women regularly himself and also be able to break down how and why he does it.
  8. Dean Raymond

    Failed Approaches

    There’s too much focus on saying the ‘right thing’ during an approach, and not enough on the vibe, energy, body language and how we deliver what we say. Approaches are failing because we’re disregarding our sub-communications.
  9. Dean Raymond

    Is Hot and Cold Behavior the Solution in Dating?

    Is hot and cold (push/pull) behaviour the solution to increasing the attraction with a woman we’re interested in, has anyone tried this with a positive outcome?
  10. Dean Raymond

    how long does it take a woman's brain to reset?

    Women respond to the emotion of the moment to the point where a guy could approach and get rejected but then in the same day approach with more energy and a higher vibe and be accepted, Attraction is not a logical process it is an emotion that is triggered by your behavior, therefore if you...
  11. Dean Raymond

    Approach and Attract

    I’ve seen quite a lot of posts around cold approach. Some guys seem to have been doing this a long time and still not get great results. What are the main things holding you back from being able to approach and attract women in public gatherings?
  12. Dean Raymond

    cold approaching vs social circle ?

    You won't be able to successfully cold approach, or keep at it if you're worried about your ego or pride. It's going to take rejections, women making you question yourself, and sometimes feeling like you're hitting a brick wall if you want to get better, more comfortable and confident at cold...
  13. Dean Raymond

    Is it normal to go through long dry spells when you don’t have a partner?

    Doing better at meeting someone in a public gathering is determined by the following: Your confidence, energy, and how you feel about yourself Your ability to approach in the first place and know what to say Your ability to flirt and create a romantic dynamic in during the interaction The...
  14. Dean Raymond

    Are Structured Singles Events a Waste of Time?

    Depends on what you're after, but it could be a good playground to practice. Although, these type of events might consist of people that feel more hopeless in meeting someone than anything else.
  15. Dean Raymond

    How Do You Cold Approach, When every Woman is in a Group?

    This is a skill of spinning plates. With group sets the potential problem is that one member of the group will either become jealous or feel left out, so you need to pay attention to the degree of which members of the group are engaged and focus on building rapport and getting the less engaged...
  16. Dean Raymond

    Nightclubs and online dating don't excite me. Is anyone else like this? Bored with how ordinary the world is?

    Mentally, you could just be shutting yourself down for any possibility or potential when you already think everything is 'boring'. You could meet someone anywhere, so as long you're open to it. Being a promoter, specific to nightlife should put you in the industry. From then on it would be up to...
  17. Dean Raymond

    Took a whole day to respond if she wanted to hang out

    During the week in which she did not hear from you, her interest may have gone elsewhere, she could just be seeing multiple other people, or, she's just busy. In this case, as it's previously been said, you'll only really be able to gauge where she stands with you one you're back and can...
  18. Dean Raymond

    I wonder why they like me

    Women are instinctively attracted to a guy that shows self-assertiveness, it shows you aren't needy. The fact that you're going about doing your own thing, not chasing a woman will show through.
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