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    never be her therapist? what if she becomes like my therapist then what?

    i read a "how to get with women" book once that said "never be her therapist" because basically you'll get stuck in friend zone, but what if I (a guy) turns her into my therapist, and get her emotionally/generally invested in me?
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    What are shared core values in a romantic relationship?

    What are core values and why do they matter in a romantic relationship? I hear this a lot in finding compatible romantic partners. I'm confused what are shared (core) value. Do they have to be the same values or (if possible) just compatible?
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    What are the best concepts to understand for finding compatible romantic partner?

    What are the best concepts to understand for finding compatible romantic partner? Attachment theory? Love languages? Enneagram? What about the relationship stages to happy marriage (romance stage, power struggle stage, mature stage)? Where can I learn more about them? What are your experience...
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    Does mystery method work well on women you want to have LTR with?

    Does the mystery method model work well with women you meet that you potentially want long term relationship with? Or are there things we should change within the MM model if a relationship is the end goal? I ask this because the end goal of mystery method is to have sex with the woman, not...
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    Is a woman's looks the most important indicator of a her value?

    When looking for long term relationship what about personality compatibility, values and everything else? I ask this because, when I read Mystery Method he explains that a woman's value is based solely on her looks and a man's value is based solely on the power he can project. He said that...
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    Day game, Social circle, or online?

    In your opinion what do you think is the best way to picking up women: Day game, Social Circle game, or Online game?
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    balancing career and meeting women

    How do you fellas who have a lot of responsiblity that goes along with having a career job, balance work and time in meeting women? Do you manage to still meet a lot of women? I'm also looking for ideas on where to meet women So it's been a long time since I posted on here. I just been focusing...
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    Questions on long distance relationships

    How often should we talk with eachother? What are like some general guidelines I should follow in a long distance relationship?
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    How to get girls on Facebook?

    I thought about this quite a lot as I spend my time procrastinating on facebook. How or is it even possible to get girls on Facebook? I know it is possible because anything is possible, but I ask myself will Facebook be as lucrative for hooking up as Myspace was? I don't see how it can be but...
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    How does one train oneself to be more self disciplined?

    I feel as though, I am sometimes too "emo" and it is unhealthy. In other words, I feel as though I am disclosing too much personal information about myself publicly (primarily on online sites) about myself that can be potentially embarrassing. How can I release angst in a more healthy way...
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    question about friendship with other males in a competitive world

    This is just something I wrote in my blog tonight. I went to a party to see old friends I haven't seen in a long time. We had some, I guess you can say, some "bad blood" between us in the past mostly because of conflicting ways we viewed our friendship I think. I thought they might have...
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    Have you ever accidently Sarged a streetwalker?

    I read a lot in the PUA community, a lot people go out on a "sarge" or in other words, approach as many women as much as possible trying to get her number or pick her up or whatever. Was just curious, have any of you guys ever accidently sarged a prostitute? And if so, How did it go?
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    how to handle when she talks about her problems?

    when your gf is talking about her problems, should you try to solve her problems? Just listen to her, even though she might go on non-stop about it?
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    how do you set boundaries while remaining open to others?

    how do you set boundaries for your coworkers, strangers, bosses, classmates, while remaining open and friendly towards them?
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    how to make friends as an adult male in todays world?

    making friends used to come naturally when I was younger. The most friends I've ever made was in highschool, and is where I have most my most fond partying memories with drinking buddies etc. I hated college for several reasons that I will not mention right now. But it is also a time in my...
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    Having trouble landing 2nd dates, need advice

    my most recent first date went like this: Let me begin by saying, we had a GREAT time. There was definetely a lot of sexual tension, a lot of foreplay.. I started with the simple kino and gradually built it up fingering her and her giving me a handjob.. She was about to give me head but her...
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    when to call back after a good first date?

    when do you call her back after a good first date and what should u say? this may be a reduntant question, but just wanted to put this out there and see what guys here would say in the given scenerio. thanx in advance :)
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    how often do you call a gf?

    this is sort of a relationship question.. how often should a guy call a gf? I mostly call people when I want to hangout, but my gf likes to talk on the phone a lot. how often should i call?
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    average time for phone conversation with a girl?

    What's the average time talking on the phone for you guys when your gaming a chick? do you keep the phone conversations short and set up a date? or do you game for as long as possible over the phone until she's really comfortable and then set up a date? Usually when I call up people, I just...
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    going out with her friends on a first date

    are there any special technique, no-no's, types of strategies i should know before going in?
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