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    Do you continue after she tells you she has a bf?

    Went to the grocery today, saw this hb8, approached and made small talk then went straight to telling her she looks cute and she tells me "you're not bad looking yourself." Then I asked her if she wanted to get together sometime and told her "I think you're interesting, we should get together...
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    Struggling with staying on track

    Hey DJ fam. I hope this is the right place to vent. Today, I felt like absolute sh1t. Actually, I feel sh1tty almost everyday. Not sure if I'm depressed, I have felt this way since freshman year of high school. I am 24 now, and I feel like I've hit some existential crisis. I just graduated...
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    Cognitive dissonance or hypocrisy?

    Growing up, I was always under the impression that guys needed to approach women and that is how people meet and that is how you get a date or girlfriend. This was before social media and online dating, so cold approaches were more normal. Nowadays, I feel like the modern feminist movement has...
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    How do you recover from a disappointment from not going for it?

    It's been a while since I did some cold approach. I was out at the mall today without the intention of approaching. Then I went into this store to check things out and happen to see this HB9 and I really wanted to go talk to her. Then I paused and over analyzed and ended up poosying out. Feels...
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    Has anyone felt like they'd never meet "the ones"?

    By "the ones" I don't mean a perfect woman. I mean the girls you find exceptionally high quality in terms of looks and personality. When I say "the ones" it meant plural. I believe it is possible to find several women to be high quality in their own perspectives. All my life, I've dated mainly...
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    How do you improve your social life and have quality people in your life?

    Growing up I had a lot of "friends" they were more like acquaintances, they were just kind of around to leech off oppurtunities. They never really added anything to the friendship. So I got rid of All of these people. I do have a few close-ish friends that hangout from time to time but they have...
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    How old is too old for never having a gf before? And being envious of those who do have a gf.

    im 24 years old and never had a girlfriend. Every time I go out, I always see couples everywhere and can't help but be a bit envious. The reason for my envy is that I have put so much effort into myself and put effort in going out alone and approaching women, and reading and studying a bit of...
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    Gettin back in the game

    Hey guys, I'm new here. I just want to introduce myself, I'm DongWong. I've been out of the game for about 3 years, and I was in college and now I'm out. I was inactive during college because I was dating this girl, she made everything easier. I wasn't heavily into pickup before or was kind of...
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