Hey DJ fam. I hope this is the right place to vent. Today, I felt like absolute sh1t. Actually, I feel sh1tty almost everyday. Not sure if I'm depressed, I have felt this way since freshman year of high school. I am 24 now, and I feel like I've hit some existential crisis. I just graduated college last year and all I've been doing is work, intern, and gym. I have this strange fear that I'm going to be 30 years old soon and I have to rush to get to where I want to get before I hit rock bottom. I'm planning to go back to school for a masters program. The only time I feel happy is if I'm making progress, I always try to push myself. However, I can't help but to feel unmotivated almost everyday, I procrastinate on my time off from work and just get into "escape mode" relaxing and watching tv or wasting time with distractions such as social media.
I've never really had any quality friends, mainly acquaintances, and I've cut out about 99% of the people that I used to associate with. I am feeling extreme isolation and loneliness. Sometimes I feel so unmotivated, I can't get out of my bed. I only go out when I need to (e.g., work, grocery shopping, etc.) I practice being social, talking everyone just so I can get some human interaction, but at the end of the day, I feel alone. I've been rejected by a lot of females, and some of them were straight up b1tches. My self-confidence was fragile and shattered. I worked hard on myself physically and mentally, and still felt inadequate because I had a hard time accepting myself right now instead of "I need to get better". I am into self-improvement, so that's why I want to improve. I know I have to live in the present but I feel fearful and get stuck in the past and the future. It even sucks getting blown out by ugly chicks, I know I could do better, but it is preposterous how even ugly chicks gets to be choosy cus some guys would f*** anything.
Always feeling social anxiety, feeling extremely awkward inside. Slowly pushing myself to doing more approaches. The average has been 8 approaches a month, no luck. I can't let this lack of success with women diminish me and stop me from progressing in life towards my goals. I guess it was my upbringing, being the youngest sibling, and parents just not having the confidence in me thus not allowing me to do anything fun because they were overprotective, so I was a bit sheltered growing up. A bunch of sh1thead friends that never supported me doing anything and c0ckblocked me. My life now just feels empty and meaningless and it makes me question "is this it? Is this my lot in life? Is there more to this? Is it over? Is this what I'm going to experience the rest of my life?" I can't help but to ruminate on those things, and seeing some people in their 30's and 40's not achieving their full potential scares the fvck outta me. Also I can't help but to feel envious of people who have great social lives, girlfriends, friends, supportive family, etc. their lives seems like it keeps expanding and growing while I feel like I'm stuck in neutral. I feel really sh1tty when I view people's lives through social media, I can't help but to live vicariously through them. This is the end of my rant...for now. At least that's all that I can think of as of now.
Sorry if it seems like it's a bunch of rambling(probably is) but my mind is all over the place and I can't fvckin sleep.
P.S. Not a virgin, just never had a gf or anything meaningful. However, I did have two hb8 and hb9 approach me and hooked up with them during college, I honestly didn't know how that happened, but I got lucky.
Tl;Dr: feel like crap, no friends, lonely, fear of getting old, fear of hitting rock bottom, feels like a pointless existence, constant rejection, never had a gf, even gets rejected by ugly b1tches, lack of motivation, extreme procrastination.
I've never really had any quality friends, mainly acquaintances, and I've cut out about 99% of the people that I used to associate with. I am feeling extreme isolation and loneliness. Sometimes I feel so unmotivated, I can't get out of my bed. I only go out when I need to (e.g., work, grocery shopping, etc.) I practice being social, talking everyone just so I can get some human interaction, but at the end of the day, I feel alone. I've been rejected by a lot of females, and some of them were straight up b1tches. My self-confidence was fragile and shattered. I worked hard on myself physically and mentally, and still felt inadequate because I had a hard time accepting myself right now instead of "I need to get better". I am into self-improvement, so that's why I want to improve. I know I have to live in the present but I feel fearful and get stuck in the past and the future. It even sucks getting blown out by ugly chicks, I know I could do better, but it is preposterous how even ugly chicks gets to be choosy cus some guys would f*** anything.
Always feeling social anxiety, feeling extremely awkward inside. Slowly pushing myself to doing more approaches. The average has been 8 approaches a month, no luck. I can't let this lack of success with women diminish me and stop me from progressing in life towards my goals. I guess it was my upbringing, being the youngest sibling, and parents just not having the confidence in me thus not allowing me to do anything fun because they were overprotective, so I was a bit sheltered growing up. A bunch of sh1thead friends that never supported me doing anything and c0ckblocked me. My life now just feels empty and meaningless and it makes me question "is this it? Is this my lot in life? Is there more to this? Is it over? Is this what I'm going to experience the rest of my life?" I can't help but to ruminate on those things, and seeing some people in their 30's and 40's not achieving their full potential scares the fvck outta me. Also I can't help but to feel envious of people who have great social lives, girlfriends, friends, supportive family, etc. their lives seems like it keeps expanding and growing while I feel like I'm stuck in neutral. I feel really sh1tty when I view people's lives through social media, I can't help but to live vicariously through them. This is the end of my rant...for now. At least that's all that I can think of as of now.
Sorry if it seems like it's a bunch of rambling(probably is) but my mind is all over the place and I can't fvckin sleep.
P.S. Not a virgin, just never had a gf or anything meaningful. However, I did have two hb8 and hb9 approach me and hooked up with them during college, I honestly didn't know how that happened, but I got lucky.
Tl;Dr: feel like crap, no friends, lonely, fear of getting old, fear of hitting rock bottom, feels like a pointless existence, constant rejection, never had a gf, even gets rejected by ugly b1tches, lack of motivation, extreme procrastination.