Growing up I had a lot of "friends" they were more like acquaintances, they were just kind of around to leech off oppurtunities. They never really added anything to the friendship. So I got rid of All of these people. I do have a few close-ish friends that hangout from time to time but they have their own group that they usually hangout with anyways. I always find myself reaching out to people and feel like I'm a burden. I don't want to be that person someone calls as a last resort. It's been hard trying to meet women because I don't have social proof. Also, my social media sucks, very few friends and followers. I don't have too many pictures, because if I did have pictures, they would just be selfies which makes me seem like I am a loner, which I am. I have to go out and approach women, and seem to strike out ALL the time. Although I don't feel completely bad for striking out because I at least put myself out there and risked rejection, but I can't help but feel hopeless that no matter what I do will be in vain. It seems like everyone around have girls flocking to them, no effort whatsoever. I know a guy at least had 5 girlfriends in his life and he never had to approach them, they actually asked him out. Sometimes I just get so down about this, I don't even feel like going out and end up zoning out in my room and watching my life past me by. Any advice is welcomed.
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I'm not an especially social person myself; my friends are relatively limited and almost all of them like to leech-off me whenever they can, which drives me to ignore them. It isn't easy wanting to better yourself. My friends are swimming in women, including one or two whom my friends effortlessly snapped-up after I asked them for advice. I have many "lonely" hobbies (home cinema, reading etc) which I've essentially all-but abandoned in my quest to improve my social game.
Are there many bars in your area? During the day if you aren't working, pop into a bar you haven't visited before, and chat with the bored bar staff during these off-hours when there aren't many customers. You could easily spend half an hour just chatting about various things. It's great to return with a date and know the staff.
Are there many bars in your area? During the day if you aren't working, pop into a bar you haven't visited before, and chat with the bored bar staff during these off-hours when there aren't many customers. You could easily spend half an hour just chatting about various things. It's great to return with a date and know the staff.