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Ok, it was definitely my fault for not gaming her enough BUT I still think those guys were annoying. I am supposed to meet her today but quite honestly, there are a lot of other girls who are into me. And she's the one I'm the least interested in...... I just hate the fact that people would...

I think you guys hit the nail right on the head. I find that too many guys are so concerned with their Asianess, Blackness, Whiteness or whatever the case may be and forget to focus on more important issues. Like cinephile said, those women who are dismissive merely because you are a certain...

-Well my statements weren't necessarily about myself. I was just saying that the internet might be difficult for some guys. I mean, I skim past unattractive women all the time. But I get your point. Even models take hundreds of pictures to take perfect shots. -Let's agree to disagree on the...

Ditto. I'm East Asian. Mostly latin, white and hapa for me. Pretty common I guess although it's only because my city is pretty vanilla. There are some women that won't date interacially but it's really their choice and it should be no skin off your back. Just move on to a different gal. It's...

-Who has a better chance of having a nice pic? An ugly guy or a good-looking guy? In the real world, an ugly guy can use other attributes like charisma and social proof etc. -That's not exactly what I meant. Someone with good writing skill can easily express his thoughts on paper. Of course...

I actually find the internet suits me well since I rarely have time to meet women out in the real world. It sort of brings them to me. The problem with internet dating is that it is only good for a certain type of person....You MUST be good looking and you have to be able to write well. For...

Which begs the question...Do I even want a dependant woman? I am so busy that I really need women who don't expect me to cater to thier every whim. Maybe I should be more selective so I don't waste time.

Please elaborate. I don't understand. I like this and see what you are saying. Even though, I feel like I'm being true to myself by only interacting with people I like, others may perceive me as unauthentic.

I like this quote. Anyway, I think all women play games so I would not necessarily advocate nexting every woman who gives you a bit of trouble. I'd rather put a woman with low interest on the backburner. Stay in touch but be unavailable and find a new prospect.

So are you saying it's kind of like networking? One person may not be of much help to you but he/she may have a friend who may be able to benefit you. Good point. I generally have a tough time spending time with people I don't like but I think I'm going to try being a little more open from...

Yeah but why would I want to interact with a woman that bores me? My natural reaction would be not to interact with her at all. There are enough women around that I should not have to waste time on women who don't interest me.

Agreed. He is probably just infatuated and probably did not really mean it. But I still think it was a bad mistake. There's not much you can do now--you just have to wait and see how she takes it. I'm sure there are some guys on this board would be able to resolve this situation but most guys...

Agreed. It took me while to get this one. It's hard to be natural and uncontrived when you don't really have interest in a girl. Never settle.

Agreed. IM is too impersonal and has a lot of lag time. The interaction is not smooth and it's very easy to get bored with someone on IM. This is not the reaction you are looking for. If you met the girl online, I would suggest e-mailing until she wants to meet you. This keeps her in...

-Snatchmaster, thanks for the tips. -Flexion, that might be the case. I definitely detected attributes of an attention wh*re. Although I am sure in one of the cases it was bad mouthing. -MacDaddy. I definitely did not establish enough attraction and had I done so, I wouldn't have been...

Ok here's something that's happened a couple of times so it's warranted my concern. In two seperate situations I have been cozy with a girl and then I meet one or a few of her guy friends. Now these guy friends are supposed to be her best beds. It's very obvious to me that these guys want her...