Search results

Hi, I have this strange phenomenon, I call it Red pill anxiety. I'll explain it, I want to know if anyone else has it. So what happens, is that I have really "blue pill" "naive" thoughts about something. Then I found out it wasn't any true, and there actually was something bad in reality...

After ~4 years of experience with this, Becoming numb does look like the perfect solution to almost everything in life, and it is achievable. But, you cannot become numb towards the negative feelings only. Meaning the more numb you become, the less you will be able to enjoy anything in life...

Talked to her, she says she's always online to see if I am online, and she quits the chat to make me think she's not obsessed. I used to believe stuff like this, but now I don't feel she's that obsessed anymore. I don't have any solid proof to just dump her but I don't want to just ignore this...

mel, you really think she will tell me ? I never go to sleep late, but yesterday I did and I saw her online until 2:30AM... I doubt she talks so much with any of her friends, and I think they all got jobs. WTF do I do ? I really don't want to waste my time money and heart on a cheating slvt...

You're still in the early honeymoon phase. Wait until she sees there are much more challenging, interesting and attractive guys out there, who want her. All of you're "investment" will back-fire.

Something a bit off topic, she's online at whatsapp every time I check. As far as I know she only has 2-3 close female friends , she and they are too boring to text so much every day. I date her 15-24 hours every time, 3 times a week, and she almost never got a massage near me. If her friends...

Doesn't necessarily mean anything, so you have to let it go. Answer the truth if you like, much higher\lower than that if you like, tell her she's not close enough to ask if you like ...

When the girl isn't interested enough in you ... 2.5 years LTR. First 2 years she was absolutely obsessed with me, so I had no problems. Now I get frustrated, anxious, and depressed all the time. I don't even have an insane 1itis for her, I don't think she's very hot\interesting\cute\special...

Acknowledge the problem, feel it, but don't let it kick in to control your behavior. Don't fight it with rationalization, it will make it much worse. Just be aware and don't be too anxious or depressed about it.

I know your pain, but what can you expect ? Attraction won't last forever, and the more un-natrual and self-conscious you are, the faster you will lose your "charm" is her eyes. Only few men can keep a hot girl somehow remotely excited as a new guy would make her feel.

It's so easy to be blinded by your emotions. You can see the disinterest consistently and still not believe it deep inside. You might even have some weird theories why she doesn't seem interested. I'm getting many disinterest signs in my LTR, yet I can't deeply feel and believe her disinterest...

As long as you get anxious and want to explain yourself, the problem is in you. Don't try to think you're someone you're not, just laugh with your friend. Unless he is a super nerd who really expects an answer and will ruin the fun.

I don't think my reaction is normal. If I'm so "blue pull" that I get anxiety every time I see a lie\manipulative\"godless" behavior, I don't think I should accept this situation and let it dictate my life. Also, I saw relationships where the guy is very alpha and can see every manipulation the...

Your friend probably has a lame-ass 1itis for her, you can understand his behavior. If she's nothing special for you, all good. If you want to bang her and feel like it's a golden opportunity, do it behind his back. You're doing nothing wrong.

Just a side note, "fake it until you make it" will ruin many guys who take it the wrong way. It's pretty hard not to take it the wrong way though. I think you should always be aware of your current feeling\emotions, never try to be consistent\logical. Be aware when you do something just to get...

I think you should figure out the cause of your disinterest in guy friends. I'm aware of some reasons I suffer from this - I constantly judge people in my mind. I don't have a true interest in most of the talks and laughs, I'm too focused on judging\myself\some crap stuck in my mind, and...

As long as you don't feel comfortable looking wherever you want, or even worse, don't know where you want to look, it means you're extremely anxious, even if you have so much fake confidence that you forget to feel your anxiety.

I'm getting bad anxiety every time I see her manipulative behavior\lies. For example she looks at me until I look back, no matter how fvcking weird it gets, then looks away. She does it almost every time we meet, she doesn't care how weird it gets, she can do it 100 times. She's not a social...

I do understand the red pill reality logically, to some degree. I know my (and every other) girl might cheat on me. I know she wants to be fvcked brutally by alpha males she finds attractive. I know she's pretending to be cute and vulnerable sometimes (even in bed) to see if I'm a real man who...

collosuss, after years of doing this, I just got sick of lying to myself how I feel. It doesn't work. Cheating on her might fix my neediness but I don't really plan to do it now, maybe as a last resort. Honestly I don't know if the disinterest is honest, I get mixed signals and the crap behind...