"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LTR isn't interested enough for my needy personality, what to do ?

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When the girl isn't interested enough in you ...

2.5 years LTR. First 2 years she was absolutely obsessed with me, so I had no problems.
Now I get frustrated, anxious, and depressed all the time. I don't even have an insane 1itis for her, I don't think she's very hot\interesting\cute\special most of the time though. I don't even think there's a special connection between us.

But I do feel terrible every time I see how not obsessed she is anymore.
Even when she does show some obsession towards me I feel it's fake and feel bad.

Dropping the girl won't really solve my personal need for an obsessed lover. But I don't know what I can do to move forward with my problem.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your ego and pride can hold the change in her attention, u were used to something and now its gone. instead be a man and stop whining like a little girl and start being busy and focus on your goals. your woman does that why cant you?
if you continue like this she will drop you like a sack of potato's and find a someone who does not have a pvssy.

Joe.
 
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Something a bit off topic, she's online at whatsapp every time I check.
As far as I know she only has 2-3 close female friends , she and they are too boring to text so much every day. I date her 15-24 hours every time, 3 times a week, and she almost never got a massage near me. If her friends were that close they would text her stuff sometimes.
I want to know who she's texting with, but I don't have any way to find out. I know I should be focusing myself, but I don't want to just be blue pill about it and spend my time, emotions and money on a cheating slvt. I'm so "blue pill" inside that every time I check her status I feel like she's checking mine, when she's probably texting another guy.
I don't have a strong enough feeling there's someone else to dump her. Anything I might say will make me super unattractive, and will make her talk with him in another app at best.
How do I get out of this situation ? Ignore the problem ? I can't find out the truth.
 
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Following a theme I've been posting about in other threads - the pervasive problem of the SoSuave membership:

"I'm not even into this girl... Why won't she like me :("
 
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mel, you really think she will tell me ?
I never go to sleep late, but yesterday I did and I saw her online until 2:30AM... I doubt she talks so much with any of her friends, and I think they all got jobs.
WTF do I do ? I really don't want to waste my time money and heart on a cheating slvt. Do I ignore it and keep dating her like everything's good? Dump her with no solid proof ? Both options seem bad to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Talked to her, she says she's always online to see if I am online, and she quits the chat to make me think she's not obsessed. I used to believe stuff like this, but now I don't feel she's that obsessed anymore.
I don't have any solid proof to just dump her but I don't want to just ignore this and risk finding out it was true.
 
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Keep this up and you will be next...she's cheating with another male and you are blind.

Go ghost now!!
 
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