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    Questioning The Don Juan Lifestyle

    I'm quite a noob in this matters. But what I've interpreted from all of this is: You were an AFC, most of us were at some point AFC's, and we weren't happy with that, for some reason some guys might not mind being nice guys, might work for them, others have had the "skills" since they can...
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    Help what dream to follow? (Astrophysics,Aerospace,Astronaut or Navy)

    I just always loved the idea of joining the navy because of the sense of patriotism I guess. But I think it's just a last resource right now. I will have exams next week.. deciding my life, yet I'm facing procrastination problems... gotta work my way through them I guess. I'm more inclined to...
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    Help ! How to "dump" a girl without hurting her much ?

    I had decided myself to talk to her tomorrow anyway. I don't feel good by ignoring her totally.. gotta face the adversities. Thanks guys, hope she reacts in a "good" way.
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    Help ! How to "dump" a girl without hurting her much ?

    It's not like a LTR relationship.. we met a week ago, but anyway I feel bad :/ I will try NC in what I can, only message back, things like that, show her I have no interest I guess. Thx for the help guys !
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    Help ! How to "dump" a girl without hurting her much ?

    So last friday was a strange day. Went to a school party that my old school does every year and met the nice 7/8 blonde girl I had been talking since last week. She's pretty, hot, same taste in music, seems like a dream, I just didnt feel any "flame" making me want to talk to her, but I...
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    Spoon's Journal: Improving is the keyword

    Guess I'm 17, been feeling pretty bad. But first, I went to a sea training activity with my country's navy, in a old ship and I simply love the sea, it's my passion. It reactivated the fire I had for the navy, and it went back to one of my options for the futre. My birthday was pretty good, tons...
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    Spoon's Journal: Improving is the keyword

    Totally pissed off by myself right now. Today helped a girl I've trying to forget (a taller girl, I kinda like her but she's like 1,75 m and I'm 1,69m/1,70m, so quiet weird and I dont seem to be abble to get any topics with her), so I helped her with a work (she's not in my class) and she got...
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    Help what dream to follow? (Astrophysics,Aerospace,Astronaut or Navy)

    Hi everyone I'm almost 17, ending my 11th year (of 12) and in one year I'll have to decide what to do with my life. But I'm interested on so many things that I can't decide properly. I have a few dreams (separate ones): -I love the sea, so I kinda would like to follow my grandfathers job...
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    Spoon's Journal: Improving is the keyword

    So update: Talked to the blonde HB, made her laugh and her friend. But got the news that a friend of mine is after her, so I kinda will quit on that, bros before hoes right ? So yeah, still have the other girl I met at the party, 7 probably, kinda nice, talked to her and other friend of her...
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    How can I get to know her better ? And become funnier ?

    Kinda failed today, didnt see her ... so I will try tomorrow and worst case scenario day after tomorrow, I do want her to remember me from the birthday party and hopefully my shrimp comedy session. In other news, 2 other guys that went to the party are after her, and I think they got to talk...
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    Spoon's Journal: Improving is the keyword

    The 18/19 yo that shred my heart came to my school, I talked to her a little bit but tried to rush it, she noticed it, I did the same thing two days ago in fb when I put a chat with her because of a bet (and because I was feelling not that well) and when she responded I said I had to go study...
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    How can I get to know her better ? And become funnier ?

    The fear is also like, not be wanted there when making a conversation, but I guess I must ignore it, do whatever feels good and if I see I'm losing then say I gotta go meet someone and run like I never ran before ahahah Thanks for the tips Ruler, it was a great help !
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    How can I get to know her better ? And become funnier ?

    Thanks, that really is insightful :D Just a thing, should hi shake hands with her friends or just kiss them all in the cheek (if they are only girls) ? I'm thinking on going like, Hi, kiss her in the cheek and her friends (if she's with friends) and then ask her if she as seen my friend (the guy...
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    Spoon's Journal: Improving is the keyword

    Okay then, I'll try: Current Objectives: >School: -Ace philosophy and maths -> By studying a bit more philosophy over the week until my last test, and maths just doing what I've been doing all year with just a bit more concentration -Get more concentrated so I can at least get a 19/20...
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    How can I get to know her better ? And become funnier ?

    Thanks for the quick answer guys. I really need to be funny, the girl seems like a real nice one and I dont wanna miss any opportunity I might have, if the situation gives me chance I'll tease the best I can, I guess I can be funny that way if in a good day. About the friends, I'm fearful of...
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    Spoon's Journal: Improving is the keyword

    Sup guys decided to update this to make it a little bit better: Who am I: -16 years old (17 in 2 weeks -South Europe -Short guy, between 5'6 and 5'7 ---> MAIN CONFIDENCE PROBLEM -Kinda smart, people consider me intelligent, good grades (18 out of 20). -Athlectic type of body, I almost don't...
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    How can I get to know her better ? And become funnier ?

    Hi guys Yesterday went to a birthday party of a friend of mine, there were like 7 guys there and 4 girls. I basically spent 4 hours there, and only spoke to the girls in the last hour. Made some stupid jokes with a friend of mine that is black (the most racist guy I've ever met) and some other...
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    Approaching Girls Advice Needed

    GUYS WHY AM I SO DUMB .. must be winter I go numb in winter with all this cloudy but not rainy weather... Duds, I'm a bit crazy, been told that thousands of times, I'm the crazy smart kid. And lately I think I got into the new crazy, clouds off the sky I just got free... seriously, WHY DO I CARE...
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    Approaching Girls Advice Needed

    Ok I'll do that, talk to more women daily. I do that with the school staff already, trying to be friends with really everyone ahahah. I kinda dropped the first girl idea, she will be in school for a few months only now so yeah. Girls 2 and 3 are the ones. Now, I'm really not sure how to...
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    Approaching Girls Advice Needed

    Hi everyone. I've learned quite a lot from you in the time I've been here. And yet I kept making the same mistakes, trying desperately to get a older girl that seemed to be bipolar and that after showing interest friendzoned me. So I kinda got sick of that, and what to start fresh again. First...
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