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    Examples of Conversation Subjects Relating to Emotion and not Logic?

    Would anyone be willing to provide brief examples of conversational topics that appeal to the female's emotional nature, so that I can work on my conversation game? I'm trying to think of some, but I think I might be too logic-based. If time permits, a do/don't list of what to talk about would...
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    I feel like my GF is drifting away, what do you guys recommend?

    Be patient and let her contact you. It is one of the many bits of wisdom I've picked up on this site. Maybe she will, maybe she won't. In the meantime focus on yourself and your plan to meet other women. Do some research on outcome independence as well if you aren't familiar with it; that...
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    Most women don't give a **** about muscles and money

    Learn to play the guitar. Learn tablature for a few songs. Don't play for her, but let her hear you play. Creative ability compliments/compensates appearance imo.
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    Tell me why I shouldn't just fap to porn

    The feeling after sex tends to make me more confident and women seem to pick up on that. If you beat off and watch porn too much it will skew your expectations of real women and sex as well as diminish your desire to meet women, so that when you do actually have the chance to get laid you might...
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    The most beta thing you have ever done

    In no particular order: doing favors w/o reciprocity crying thinking she was different thinking she would never lose interest becoming needy/clingy ceding power adjusting my plans to accommodate hers calling/texting too much not recognizing signs/behaviors of low il (not willing to walk away)...
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    Oneitus

    otherwise it's just a hangover.
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    Oneitus

    It probably has to happen at least once in life in order to recognize and eliminate it in the future, kind of like a vaccine.
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    Barter for Sex?

    An ex who I put on the back burner but didn't go full nc on due to occasional post-breakup sex (about once a month, a plate I suppose) recently called me and asked if I would be willing to take her new, hyper dog jogging with me to burn off some of his energy as this is her busy time of year and...
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    Curiosity, Stalking, or Paranoid?

    Recently, I was leaving an FWB/potential future gf's house, as I left I noticed a car parked in front of the vacant house next door with some guy in it talking on his phone. I pull out of her driveway and as I'm driving down the street I notice in the rear view the same guy getting out of his...
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    Apple Cider Vinegar

    I drink about half a shot glass a day of ACV and I never get sick. The same way I would a shot of whiskey. It's not that bad, just sour. Do it before you brush your teeth.
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    What Is The Best Way To Break Up?

    Thanks all for the great advice. I'll definitely be using it soon.
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    What Is The Best Way To Break Up?

    Both our Facebook profiles say we're in a relationship Should I change that Should I delete her from my friend list Or just keep her on it and ignore any contact? The funny thing is she's going out of town at the end of the month for her school reunion and I suspect she is stringing...
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    What Is The Best Way To Break Up?

    Looks like her interest has finally hit rock bottom and I guess I'll be the one to break up as her actions are indicating this is what she wants. Background: Within the past 2 months she has pulled back and withheld sex (she blew me last week though). About a month ago when I asked her if...
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    Been In Relationship Over A Year, Her Interest May Be Declining

    She called me late Friday night and asked how I was doing. I told her I had just gotten home from an awesome party at an art gallery (sort of true, wasn't that awesome.) She got mad I didn't invite her and hung up on me. I texted her on Sunday to see if she wanted to watch one of "our"...
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    Been In Relationship Over A Year, Her Interest May Be Declining

    I guess I'll give it another month and see how it goes. The way I see it I've been nice enough,so no more Mr. Nice Guy. I'm going to take a step back and see what happens, gauge her response to me not being around and brush up on some DJ tips, etc. I have no problem approaching women and know a...
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    Been In Relationship Over A Year, Her Interest May Be Declining

    Hello, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend over a year now. She is nice and I love her, but I feel like she is ****ing with my head lately. As expected we had sex all the time at first, then it gradually reached a plateau, until recently. We have not had sex in a month. She is...
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