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    How can I wean myself off my gf?

    Firstly, I don’t need the moral lecture. I’ve made my choice. Here’s the situation. I love(d) my girlfriend of 3 years but I treated her like ****. I used to get verbally abusive and was a major *******. One night I got angry and told her to leave me alone and that I didn’t want to be with...
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    Girlfriend is hanging out with former personal trainer (group setting)

    My gf is pretty in to the gym and she got herself a personal trainer about a year ago. They ended their business relationship a few months ago but he still texts her random workouts or diet plans and gives her the occasional free session since they attend the same gym so they're on good...
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    Girlfriend is losing interest - how should I proceed?

    Had a big fight with the girlfriend a few days ago. It was my fault but it was a kind of continuation of a disagreement we had had previously. I had made plans with a few mates on the Friday before Valentine's day to go for drinks. So I told her she should do something similar and then...
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    Seeing other women on the side

    30 is a really interesting phase that gives you time to reflect. I've realised many things about myself and dating over the past few years. One important realisation is that I will never be the kind of guy who is 100% happy to be in a monogamous relationship. Men have a natural desire to...
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    Did I do anything wrong?

    Firstly I’m not looking for a feel good answer. I want the truth. Been with my girlfriend for over a year. Never cheated or even put myself in a situation to allow it to happen and have always expected the same. My gf and I have an argument and it basically ends with me saying “screw this...
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    Commodities - a sector worth getting into?

    I've just been offered a mid level position within a very prominent commodity trading and mining company who's CEO has pretty serious ambitions (anyone who follows the commodities market will probably know who I'm talking about). It's in commercial finance so hopefully I'll be getting...
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    Men: Marrying for upward social mobility

    I'm generally against marriage because it's not advantageous for men. But I'm also incredibly ambitious. Hear me out. Do you think it's wise to only consider for an LTR or marriage women who come from families with high income backgrounds in an attempt to launch yourself into the aristocracy...
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    How often do you have sex with your wife/gf?

    I just came back from a 3 week holiday with my gf of 10 months. I have this condition where if I get too sexual aroused for extended periods then I get quite painful blue balls so I make it a policy to masturbate in the morning if my gf turns me on but I don't reach full orgasm. I was having...
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    Gf has male personal trainer

    Not sure how I feel about this.
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    Question for guys with girlfriends

    Well it's that time of the year. Weather is getting hotter and girls feel the need to show more and more skin. My girlfriend came back from shopping with her friends, really excited. She wanted to show me these new shorts she bought. So she tries them on and yes...she looks super hot, but a...
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    Gf would let me have 3some. Advice needed!

    We were in bed after sex last night and I brought up the topic of fantasies. I talked about stuff I'd want to do just for the experience and a 3some was one of them. My gf said she wouldn't like to see me having sex with someone else but would do it if it was a one off or for something...
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    What to do if your gf denies you sex?

    My gf and I see each other 2 or 3 times a week on average. We are just making our way back from a gig. It's still quite early. About 10. I expect her to come back to mine but she says she's "tired". I say fair enough and then come back home alone but to be honest I'm quite annoyed. I think...
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    Girlfriend gaining weight - What to do?

    Hey long term lurker, very infrequent poster as I've been in an LTR for the past few months. When I first met my gf in the summer she was 116lbs. Tight body, firm ass, perky t*ts. Just a really nice physique all around. In little over eight months she has put on more than 15lbs. She's about...
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    What do you guys think of this situation?

    Hey guys, long time lurker. So I’ve been going out with this girl for a few months and for the most part she’s great, but tonight she did something that really annoyed me. Here’s the situation. I work a 9 - 7 office job during the week and then I wait tables at a bar through most of...
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