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I've been doing a pretty good job weeding out the uninterested types, so I think I know where this is headed.... But I texted a girl telling her to let me know which days she's free in the coming days so that we can get a drink. She said "yes let's get a drink!" but didn't give me a day she's...

Went out on a couple dates with a chick. From the start, getting her out was like pulling teeth. She'd literally take a day to respond to my texts (whether she was playing games or otherwise) and on the morning of our third date, canceled. She showed enough interest, including trying a...

So I've been on a couple dates with this chick. Had a pretty good time, she's decently cute. However, I think I have to next to her. See, the problem is, whenever I text her to meet up, she usually takes 1-2 days to reply. I usually try asking a few days in advanced, because I am an...

Does this work well? It seems like it would be a way to kind of turn the tables, especially if she's high value.

Moving to another city in a few weeks. Ran into a girl who likely had a thing for me recently and in the beginning of the conversation, she was like she always was, flirty and bubbly. Then as the conversation turned, I broke the news I was moving during the flow of the conversation and since...

Hey guys. Something I've been running into quite a bit is when you ask a girl out a lot of times I get "Who else is going?" or "Can I bring people?" or else assumes it's a group thing. And this occurs even with girls that I'm sure are into me. It's puzzling. I know this is almost always a...

I've been going out lately just to practice my skills and, let me say, it's been a tough going. I feel like I'm getting better; at the same time, though, it's very small progress. Tonight was a nadir; I got rejected by probably a 5, 6 at best, and moments later she's making out with another...

Me and my coworkers are going out in a couple nights, both male and females. How do you guys usually play this? Talk to everyone? I feel like if you want to go after a HB, you have to isolate her or else ignore her in a social/group setting until you can set up a 1-on-1 with her.

Was doing really well for several months, my confidence was at an all-time high, and my happiness was through the roof. Recently, however, the old insecurities have returned: oneitis, jealousy, feelings of worthlessness. This has coincided with being introduced to a HB that is almost a...

Do you play this any differently or have a different mindset? Planning on asking out a soon to be former coworker in a couple weeks; however, I know she has a thing for one of my colleagues. Was gonna ask her for drinks or something similar.

I assume it's because she liked it. My question is......do I continue to play up the mystery angle or what? I've always lived by the axiom short and sweet. I don't give anyone too much of my time, but when I do, I make sure they have fun. End on a high note. I never want to overstay...

I'm running into a weird situation. I don't have a good relationship with my family. Growing up, I knew they loved me and I could count on them unconditionally. Fast forward a few years after high school and everything becomes a 180. I can't go to any one of them for unconditional help...

I was at a reunion of sorts recently and I came across a woman who I knew from a couple years ago when I was a full-blown AFC. She called me out in front of everyone saying that she was surprised I'd even show up to a social event. Now, most of the people that know me now know that I'm...

This has always bugged me. The familiarity principle, or the mere exposure effect, is well known in psychology. Basically the more you see/are exposed to something, the more likeable it is to you. But contrast that to scarcity, where we're taught to give women only dollops of our...

Is it alright if I just give myself a gimme? Man...I haven't felt this low since before I started coming on these forums. Like I'm feeling that old self-loathing again. Way too outcome-dependent this time and I sensed it and knew it. Lost valuable time and resources. A gut punch.

So me and this HB7.5 started flirting and eventually it led to some play wrestling and tickling. I should've made out with her at the very least, but there were a couple of factors working against that: 1. her apparent interest caught me by surprise and 2. her brother was in the same room and I...

So when I first started out, probably like a lot of you, I was worried about a "laundry list" of actions to take to "make a girl like me". I would consciously think about negs, what teasing words I should say, when/how to kino. But I realized it really comes down to just enjoying the...

I'm talking about a HIGH interest woman. Will they always initiate text/phone calls? Or do you find that you still have to initiate?

How does that formula sound? I know some people say that if you go weeks or even months without contacting a woman, she will lose interest. However, I'm finding lately, at parties for instance, if I have a good time with a woman and a few weeks go by without a peep from either one of us, the...

So I see this girl occasionally, maybe once a month, at parties. She's kind of been on the periphery of things for me, mainly because she's quite a bit younger than me (she's a college freshman). She's ramped up attraction signals every time I've met her, gradually increasing them to the point...