So when I first started out, probably like a lot of you, I was worried about a "laundry list" of actions to take to "make a girl like me". I would consciously think about negs, what teasing words I should say, when/how to kino.
But I realized it really comes down to just enjoying the interaction, almost like when you were a kid and you did whatever you wanted, whenever you wanted. There was no past or future, there was just the present moment.
Being in this state will likely end up provoking the HB to be in this state as well, making her feel like a little girl again (and if it doesn't, who wants her anyway).
This way, escalation doesn't become forced or self-conscious. Instead, the interaction develops at its own pace. I've noticed that if I interacted with a HB, bringing out her inner girl, if I go weeks without seeing her, when I see her next she will seek me out and I can pick up where we left off. I'm assuming it's because of the way I make her feel when she's around me.
I used to be so worried about the kiss, so conscious about it. But when you let the interaction develop in this way, it feels like it's no big deal, that it's just part of the whole thing. Each step in kino escalation is so comfortable and no big deal. I mean, the other day, I was grabbing a girl's ass as the interaction escalated and it felt like I should've been doing it all along.
But I realized it really comes down to just enjoying the interaction, almost like when you were a kid and you did whatever you wanted, whenever you wanted. There was no past or future, there was just the present moment.
Being in this state will likely end up provoking the HB to be in this state as well, making her feel like a little girl again (and if it doesn't, who wants her anyway).
This way, escalation doesn't become forced or self-conscious. Instead, the interaction develops at its own pace. I've noticed that if I interacted with a HB, bringing out her inner girl, if I go weeks without seeing her, when I see her next she will seek me out and I can pick up where we left off. I'm assuming it's because of the way I make her feel when she's around me.
I used to be so worried about the kiss, so conscious about it. But when you let the interaction develop in this way, it feels like it's no big deal, that it's just part of the whole thing. Each step in kino escalation is so comfortable and no big deal. I mean, the other day, I was grabbing a girl's ass as the interaction escalated and it felt like I should've been doing it all along.
