You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
**** that. You are going to make this guy look like a chump. GO FOR IT. Post back her reaction and actions afterwards.teddy said:
I have to wait a couple weeks because I don't think it'd be a good idea to ask her until we are officially former co-workers. Made sense initially, though I feel kind of pissed right now this has dragged out for a bit.DragonBlood said:Sup teddy
**** that. You are going to make this guy look like a chump. GO FOR IT. Post back her reaction and actions afterwards.