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Gentlemen, A friend of mine is getting married in two months. He has, as far as I am aware, never been exposed to the manosphere or explicitly to any red pill ideas elsewhere. The good news is that his wife-to-be is from a very conservative part of the country, and seems to have been...

Hi everyone, Things are going well with my favorite plate, and I suspect that fairly soon she's going to ask for us to be exclusive. I'm okay with this, but I want to handle this request properly when it comes. So what is the best way to do this? I certainly don't want to come across as...

Hi everyone, I've recently decided to invest in a refresh to my wardrobe. However, there's a lot of conflicting advice on the Internet about what I should or shouldn't do. Moreover, I don't have the option of going shopping with a girl who knows a lot about men's style. The main question...

Over at Rollo's website, a commenter posted the following as an example of the kind of bad advice women give men: http://www.xojane.com/sex/how-to-ask-out-a-woman-if-you-really-like-her-and-also-how-to-f-the-s-out-of-her-brains I'm afraid most of the points actually seemed pretty decent to...

I've tried out Tinder for the past month or so, but have not been getting a great response rate by sending out "Hey" or "Hi" with my matches. Considering that on Tinder, all you really have to go on is a few photographs, and maybe a sentence or two in the description, I figured there's not...

Gentlemen, TLDR: Go to the end for a one-paragraph summary. I have had an interesting situation arise. I recently managed to rather smoothly get a girl into bed with me, and she happily let me take off her top and bra, but was very insistent about keeping her jeans on. I tried the...

Gentlemen, I encountered a new and (for me) unusual behavior from a girl a few days ago. Perhaps you can help decipher it. I was out at a party with a (male) buddy of mine. At some point we got chatting to a group of guys and girls. My buddy was standing next to some girl, and chatted to...

Hi guys, I chatted briefly to a girl on an online dating site about a month ago, and as per the SoSuave method, asked her out within a couple of messages. She said she was going to be out of town for a month, so I told her to let me know when she's back. She's evidently back now, and she...

Gentlemen (and lurking ladies), I have some good news to report. I was recently at a conference in a central European country for a week and put some SoSuave knowledge to work there. To be clear, I fvcked up a lot, and made many, many mistakes that in the past would have cost me completely...

Hi guys, A girl ("Anna"; the one from this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2019113) is scheduled to come over to my place tomorrow night at 8 for "coffee". Here's how the invitation went: Me: Hey, are you free tomorrow night? Her: Yeah, I'm free for a little bit...

Hi guys, This was date #2 with "Anna". The first date was to a free concert, and at the end of that date, I accompanied her home, and gave her a hug goodnight -- nothing more, since I didn't build any attraction during the evening. So tonight was our first real date; I took her out to...

Hi guys, I have a question for the board. The situation: a girl I went on a date with recently at some point started talking about some guy she knows from her old job across the country who, she claimed, is the best thing since sliced bread. Supposedly the guy is rugged, honest, faithful...

Hey guys, Let's suppose a girl flakes on you, e.g. tells you she'll call you when she gets back from some event so you can meet up, and then doesn't. When you next chat with or see the girl, do you call her out on this or not? My usual way to react to this is to just ignore it, even if her...

Hey guys, I met a girl a week ago, and had drinks with her yesterday. She came over to my place afterwards for a few more drinks, but no lay (my game still needs a *lot* of work!). However, I was getting a bunch of kino in, and she was reciprocating, and generally I thought the conversation...

Hey everyone, I've been relatively proactive in speaking to girls and getting numbers over the past month or two. Sadly most of it has come to naught: a couple of few phone numbers, but no responses. However, this evening, I hit pay dirt. --- Field Report ------------ The scene...

Hey guys, Could you suggest some advice for how to proceed in the following situation? I met a group of 3 girls at an otherwise empty busstop, and struck up a conversation with them. When the bus arrived 5 minutes later, we all got on, and I kept chatting with them. I only had about 5...

Hi all, I'm going to give the full story here, for those who want the details. If you just want the girl's rejection, and my questions, skip to the end. The full story After meeting a girl through mutual friends, I asked her a few days later to get lunch with me last Saturday. That first...