"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Separating groups of girls: seeking advice on tactics

d0g

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Hey guys,

Could you suggest some advice for how to proceed in the following situation?

I met a group of 3 girls at an otherwise empty busstop, and struck up a conversation with them. When the bus arrived 5 minutes later, we all got on, and I kept chatting with them. I only had about 5 minutes on the bus too, and my stop was before theirs. It was a night bus, and no one else was on the bus besides us and the driver.

I failed to either get any of their numbers, or to deliver my number to them. I couldn't think of any reasonable way to do it: it seems like it would be silly to ask for all three of their numbers, and likewise it seemed silly to give my number to all three of them.

What should I have done? Just asked one of the girls for her number? Just given one of the girls my number? In these cases, which girl? (The best-, middle- or worst-looking one?)

Thanks,

d0g
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thevilittletroll

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might not be a bad idea to ask for facebook. if they are all friends, they're probably friends on facebook too. then you can private message each one individually and ask for phone numbers.
 

Who Dares Win

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Do as vittletroll suggested but very important dont forget to fake interest in all of them, dont make the mistake of light your eyes when you get the facebook details of the girls you like while just bother writing when you get the ones of the fat girl.

You have no idea how powerful a butthurt fat girl could be for such minimal thing and how much effort she can put in sabotaging your plans with her cute friend, if those fat girls would put in dieting half the effort they put in managing their ego, they would all be models.
 
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