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I'm not quite sure how to phrase what I'm asking, but I've noticed a wide variety of behaviour from women after we've had sex on the first date. After a first date hookup, sometimes they have 0 interest in meeting up again, others they want to hookup/go out again, others want to actually start...

Speaking from personal experience, definitely move on and delete her number too.

I invite a chick over and she calls the idea out saying if she comes over this is a booty call, and asks if that's what I want? What's a good counter response?

I don't think he is saying one is necessarily looking for a relationship off Tinder, I think he was describing that your time is more likely to get wasted from a girl who does not give out her number compared to one who does. I agree with this. Yes, realistically getting laid is the objective...

...but wants to meet up nonetheless. She said she has had some bad experiences in the past giving out her number over Tinder, but would like to set up a date via the app. Any suggestions on how to handle this?

yeah seems like we're all in general agreement. I was trying to think of any examples of success when a girl gave me a flaky excuse before giving their number or meeting up...and none of the top of my head. I have had a couple that gave me their emails first due to being apprehensive about...

How do you handle women you're talking to online that are presumably interested, but keep using precursors like "you don't even know me yet!!' and when you ask them out say things like "ya sometime, after we get to know each other more". And it's not like I asked them out on the first message...

I'm sure most of us have tons of girls in our phone that we went out with once, twice, maybe even 10 times at one point but for whatever reason...things didn't work out. These aren't necessarily "ex's" but maybe girls you dated for a while. There seems to be a strong movement to not contact...

Yeah that can definitely be me! I've been told I'm funny etc. but I still tend to get too excited and go on about stuff that people might not perceive as interesting. I just need to relax and be a bit more comfortable, like you suggested.

Yeah for sure. I know a couple chicks, one talks a lot but she is also super funny and she does let you speak and provide input. Another just talks and talks and doesn't really give you a chance to say much, and what she's saying is pretty dumb/boring anyway. Multiple chicks have said I was...

I talk a lot. I've even brought it up straightforwardly on dates in a half-joking manner, and basically every time they kinda nervously laugh and agree. This isn't necessarily a date killer, cause if there is enough attraction or maybe we have enough in common, their interest will remain high...

lol. That joke cracked me up actually.

I tried reaching out to her via phone and she called me back within an hour of my call. I talked to her and she was under the impression I didn't want to be serious. I didn't lay down any marriage proposals or anything but I cemented the fact that I care about her and had a really good time...

Word up. Lesson learned, thanks for the advice guys. Got a lot of good info from the responses here and although I probably still suck at dating, my overall game is improving day by day so that leaves my optimistic.

Thanks for the input. Yeah I agree, looking back upon it I regret actually being honest about seeing other girls lol. I should've just said something vague. But none of her business to ask that after a second date anyway. I've joked around with girls about how their dates have been and they...

Sorry for the long post, I didn't want to miss any details and want to demonstrate the girls interest level as time went on. Met this girl online about 4 weeks ago. She was new to the site and her interest level was ultra high and although she was working 7 straight days 10-12 hour shifts she...

Muscles/body type for a man is probably around 20% of the equation in terms of looks. Face, height, hair, teeth, skin quality, skin tone are important as well so for instance you can't just say "hey I'm tall how come I'm not getting a bunch of girls!" because there is way more to the equation...

You've never had a girl flake on a date because she had a bad day? I had one girl say something similar last year, she said she was tired/getting over a cold and cancelled last minute. Seemed pretty flaky to me but whatever I just brushed it off invited her out another time. Next time I saw her...

I don't necessarily disagree with your premise, but I think some of the logistics aren't being communicated correctly. She made that statement after we confirmed a second date...then she texted me later on that day and said she changed her mind and thought that we were looking for two different...

Agreed. The girl in the thread I'm referring to responded quickly up until the weekend, then slowed down for whatever reason. Her interest level, on a scale of 1-10 was a 6 or 7 imo. But now the slow response and entirely blocking off her schedule doesn't seem good. Gonna go ghost as I'm pretty...