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    Alpha Isolation And Alpha Gimmicks

    "Alpha isolation" is defined as a period of time when a man retreats into isolation, does not actively game women, and instead devotes time to improving himself, after which he emerges a much stronger PUA. It might be his career, his looks, or development of powerful gimmicks (a gimmick is...
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    "Reluctant PUA" Game Explained (The Strongest Game Of All)

    Under the "iterated prisoner's dilemma" part of GAME THEORY, you are supposed to trust the other party at first, and then expect the4m to duplicate their initial behavior in subsequent iterations. This way, you don't offend the trustworthy the first time, but don't let anyone fool you twice...
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    Why smart betas do better than alphas

    Several reasons: 1. Higher standards The "alpha" tends to be indiscriminate, blowing away whatever is in his path, while the "beta" tends to be very picky. Another subtlety is that the alpha gravitates towards women who already want him (dismissing the ones who don't with NC), while the...
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    To my hypocritical haters on PUAHate

    They complain that someone who criticizes them censors them on his blog, where they can't respond, yet they do the same to ME, having banned me from a site they now cowardly ambush me on. As they are quoting my writing, I could just file DMCA notices to get them to stop, but people are wising...
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    The Book That Launched The Seduction Community (Free copy at link)

    http://www.toosmarttofail.com/29reasons.pdf My latest book is also free on the site, but you'll have to dig for it. HINT: it's similar in title to my username here. It's called "29 Reasons Not To Be A Nice Guy." Note the copyright on the book: 1999 (April 1, 1999 I believe). This...
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    The Dreaded "Urkel Game" (Going "Urkel")

    Steve Urkel, from Family Matters, was a total dweeb who pursued Larua forever. Yet he was a great PUA. Why? Simple: HE WAS IMPERVIOUS TO REJECTION. Women can't stand this, because their normal weapon doesn't work. Going Urkel means not caring if she wants you or not, or if she rejects...
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    Turning the Friend Zone into the RED ZONE

    A common misconception about "super-elite" women (9.5 and up) is that you can "game" them. You can't. Why not? Simple: THEY DO NOT NEED TO GIVE UP SEX TO HAVE GUYS SAY THEY LOVE THEM. This means they are NOT HUNGRY. When a super-elite has an interest in you, she will TAKE HER...
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    Go ahead ask me ANYTHING (on-topic)

    Been dating THIRTY-ONE years...had the best women in the world in my prime, now over the hill, and willing to share. Wrote a LONG book explaining how to go from beginner AFC to world-class PUA, and created a lot of the theory many of you use, even if you don't realize it. Willing to prove...
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    Mo' Skillz/Mo' Problems

    We all know the BASIC problems that beginners have, like how to approach, what to say, how to escalate, and so forth. If you think your love life will simplify as you get more skills, you're wrong! The better you get, the more messed up your situations will get. Here's my favorite: One...
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