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  1. Captain Rizz

    AI tools and dating -- a review

    I’ve been recommending this in a few threads where people have complained about dating apps, so I figured I might as well make my own thread for posterity. So, you have have noticed that AI is getting scary good. This includes dating applications. I stumbled upon an app called Wingman Live and...
  2. Captain Rizz

    is BPD an absolute no-go zone?

    Imagine a fun-as-hell 11/10 girl who is just your type.... but has borderline personality disorder. What's the move? No go?
  3. Captain Rizz

    How much do women want to be approached?

    They want to be approached to some extent, but how much? And by whom? Where and when? Are there any good theories or numbers on this?
  4. Captain Rizz

    Autistic girl strategy

    Anyone have good tips for this? Do autistic girls require a different sort of "game" than neurotypical ones?
  5. Captain Rizz

    How much of attraction is "compatibility"?

    This is an open-ended question. But you hear the word compatibility thrown around. What does it mean and how much does it have to do with attraction?
  6. Captain Rizz

    Is there any way to recover from a mediocre/ bad first date?

    Deep dive conversation, but short date. Is the move to simply hail mary a second date?
  7. Captain Rizz

    How bad is it to cancel on a girl?

    Let's say you suddenly need to get something important done. Is it bad to cancel? Neutral? Could be a power move?
  8. Captain Rizz

    Study: Testosterone makes men speak their mind more, makes them less worried about fitting in

    They rubbed testosterone gel on men's arms, and then those men stopped engaging in deceptive, supplicating, people-pleasing behavior. They spoke their minds confidently regardless of what others think. Reminder: independence -- or "not giving a ****" -- is attractive on a biological level...
  9. Captain Rizz

    "Badboymaxxing"

    What are the opinions on this? Getting tattoos definitely helps in my experience
  10. Captain Rizz

    The best and worst cities for men for dating

    This article on dating statistics was pretty interesting. I've lived in a few cities across the country and I really did notice a big difference from location to location. I lived in the Bay Area and dating there is... not good at all, just like the article suggests. There are a few surprising...
  11. Captain Rizz

    How to you reply to rude cancellations?

    First text: "Be there soon!" Second text: "oh no friend needs to go to the ER I gotta cancel." Second is almost certainly a lie. Should it be ignored? Or should she be asked to reschedule?
  12. Captain Rizz

    Guess what? Money doesn't matter.

    Anyone else see frustrated guys falling into this trap? They think that money is more important than fundamentals, than strategy, than behavior, than lifestyle. It's ridiculous. Mental midgets like Andrew Tate push this narrative and so it's a myth that refuses to die. If you think money is...
  13. Captain Rizz

    What makes girls obsessed with a man?

    Most people have encountered women who still are fixated on a male ex after years and years. Some people have even encountered a man who has this effect on women. This is different from being good with women. It's different from making them attracted to you or getting them into bed, and it's...
  14. Captain Rizz

    "Don't kiss a girl before she's at a place you can have sex"

    I've heard this rule from gurus. Is this considered a good principle? Because in my experience it's not. My usual way on a first date is Build tension with kino at the first place Move her to the second venue. On the way there, if the vibes are right, turn her to me and go in for a passionate...
  15. Captain Rizz

    Hitting on the girl working retail

    Is there a consensus on how to hit on girls at retail/restaurants? I feel like this might be the final boss of pickup. Two things stand out: They're required as a job duty to be warm to customers, meaning that it's hard to pick up genuine IOIs. They are easy to be made uncomfortable and annoyed...
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