is BPD an absolute no-go zone?

[Captain Rizz]

Imagine a fun-as-hell 11/10 girl who is just your type.... but has borderline personality disorder.

What's the move? No go?

 

[Glassguy]

For fun only. If you're not equipped to handle these types of women, get away as quickly as possible.

 

[SW15]

For fun only. If you're not equipped to handle these types of women, get away as quickly as possible.

Agree with this. It's the best play on a BPD woman.

 

[The Duke]

Every guy should try one out at least once.

 

[Glassguy]

Every guy should try one out at least once.

Oh they are fun......until it goes from fun to highly toxic in a blink of the eye.
But some of the best lessons in life are the ones we have to learn the hard way!

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Do not stick any of your appendages in crazy!

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Captain,
You get away with this uninjured and You will be like the Guy in the Good Book who handled Snakes and drank poisen!

 

[RickPound]

Recreational use only. It’ll test your inner game like nothing else. Get off the rollercoaster way before you think you should - problem is it’s way too fun and you won’t want to. Ruthless game is required for your own sanity. Keep breaking her heart and she’ll be yours forever, but give her an inkling of yours and she’ll destroy you. You’re playing with fire, that p**sy is good but it comes with a price.

 

[RickPound]

Btw Rizz, what makes you think she has BPD?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Recreational use only. It’ll test your inner game like nothing else. Get off the rollercoaster way before you think you should - problem is it’s way too fun and you won’t want to. Ruthless game is required for your own sanity. Keep breaking her heart and she’ll be yours forever, but give her an inkling of yours and she’ll destroy you. You’re playing with fire, that p**sy is good but it comes with a price.

Facts

 

[PlatoPacks23]

I got burned but I learned a lot, why not man

I will say though when it's "done" in her mind it's DONE. wasted 2 ****ing months of my life trying to change otherwise

 

[Westminster]

Why not? Because a BPD can ruin you, your family, cost you your job, and your liberty and think nothing of it.

So the answer is no. Not even for recreational use. Trust, me it's not worth it.

 

[Chow Mein]

I think every man has to be with a BPD chick once in their life to teach lessons. You never know until you experienced.

It tests your will and frame, being one move ahead will always be a game I’m willing to play.
Who doesn’t love a game of hide and seek?

 

[Agamemnon43]

Does she have a medical confirmation of bpd or that's just what she's told you? How much do you know about her?

 

[Bingo-Player]

BPD women are generally good at wearing masks and love bombing initially to hide the crazy and draw unsuspecting men in

Most men are blind to women's tricks on a normal day blend in a seasoned / professional liar with a personality disorder and you're quickly going to have serious problems on your hands

Unfortunately as BPD's get more comfortable with you the mask begins to slip ,most of the time they are also wearing multiple personalities so you have absolutely no idea who they actually are

They tend to be highly promiscious and will sleep with other men on a whim

Source : I dated one for about 6 months in 2022 I was aware early on she was going to be trouble but kept her at arms length and enjoyed fvcking her ( the sex is usually excellent )

By the end it became exhausting being around her , I eventually found out from one of her freinds she was basically escorting with much older men through seeking arrangements

I binned her the next day she continued pursuing/ stalking me for almost a year after

Be very very carful playing with fire

 

[Learning Curve]

Imagine a fun-as-hell 11/10 girl who is just your type.... but has borderline personality disorder.

What's the move? No go?

Run. Run. Run.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Imagine a fun-as-hell 11/10 girl who is just your type.... but has borderline personality disorder.

What's the move? No go?

By virtue of being human, ALL women are insane to a degree, and thus WILL exhibit traits of BPD, manic depression, social anxiety, etc etc. All that's really possible is for us to keep the amount of melodrama in our lives at a minimum, by not inviting broads who are clearly off The Richter Scale https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/the-shape-of-the-container.282297/#post-3120359 in

It's not necessary, and often f-cking unhelpful, for us to lapse into psychologizing the crap out of everything. Especially when we ourselves aren't shrinks, and we're dealing with a lover, not a client/patient who's come to us for treatment

"Look alive, gents... There are many real-life equivalents to Catherine Trammel, Matty Walker, and Hannah Baker walking the planet. This has been the case since the beginning of our species, and will remain so, for the foreseeable future" is all we need to say

 

[BPH]

I dated a girl that was bipolar, does that count?

 

[Captain Rizz]

Btw Rizz, what makes you think she has BPD?

She said so lol

 

[BaronOfHair]

She's probably just mercurial

What's described here https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.ps...ift-mind/200902/the-pathologizing-culture?amp Really has gotten way out of hand, in the decades since. Run of the mill difficulties with emotional control and general immaturity(What human being ISN'T guilty of such things, from time to time?)is now grounds for being diagnosed with BPD

When really all that's required to remedy such an ailment is the occasional "Get a grip", or "Honey, you're not a toddler anymore, so stop acting like one"