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For some reason I become an "extrovert" at work and have almost 0 inhibition. I'm working part time as a waiter before college. So at work there was this one girl in the kitchen, a "salatress" (someone who makes salads). And when I first saw her I found her cute. I saw her through a window...

I remember Stage 1. I was that way in college, 100% focused on academics, but was oblivious to women. Dating seemed alien to me and definitely something for “other people.” According to contemporary RP theory, I should have been attracting women then because I was “focused on my purpose.”...

Bring her into your world, which (depending on your interests) may need gentle introduction at first Don't worry about whether she's into it or not. Go with no agenda other than to have fun and feel each other out. Also have a plan b (no, not the morning after pill) in case something out of...

What you say is true the problem is the old saying the loudest are a small minority are now becoming a loud majority I don't disagree with you, I think modern men are soft, and lazy. There tons of stat's of young men not wanting to work, when you ask why they say they can't find jobs but UPS...

To add Dw3, it's incredibly sad about her ex. Is he terminal? He recovered in college, so there is always hope. Anyway...you can't change the past but going forward you can support her being a supportive friend to him now. Tough situation, wishing everyone involved the best.

3.5 years ago my girlfriend asked me to be exclusive. Within a few minutes, a guy texted her who she said was a male friend of hers. I was a pretty active participant here at the time and was able to suss out relatively quickly that they hooked up 15 months before I was on the scene. That they...

I would tell your cousin to relax, at least you weren't in the Holocaust and go read Victor Frankel's book Man's Search for Meaning. Whatever type of love he got stored under there, he should not abandon it, I'd encourage him to join a church for support, get a job and go to college if he can...

I feel sad. There is this sadness. I've just turned 37 and live in England. In my early to late teens(Between 2002-2008), I experienced: -Playing on the playstation with my cousin's -Playing back garden cricket with my cousin's -Going to my cousin's house -Watching international cricket on TV...

On sosuave.net this type of question is meant as some sort of " qualification" to judge whether the encounter is "legit or not". And I get that to some degree as younger women tend to be hotter and tighter. Coincidentally this one was on the younger side, but I always keep it 100 thus I also...

Who said it would ruffle my feathers? So you got college girls hitting on you at the same time great grandmothers are hitting on you. That's quite a broad spectrum. Generally women hit on men around their own age, but I guess its different in your situation.

I am not sure who is more weird - 60 years old guy that has nothing better to do than commenting on female dating strategy with passive anger (e.g. guy on the vid around 04:15) or these chicks on the vid (because they present rather common attitude these days). First thing: There are no...

I recently saw a video where a guy was asking women which they preferred: pleasuring their man orally, or by hand. IIRC, the guy mostly stopped couples and asked the woman the question. To my surprise, most said they preferred oral. That surprised me, because it seems like the hand would be...

And no dig at OP, but that especially BECAUSE men think like this. Because men believe their peak is at 40. In my culture ( Latin American/Caribbean) men sometimes believe they won't even make it to 40.... And I've seen it my entire life; when 40 hits they have NOTHING to show for. They didn't...

The only way men can peak in their 40s is by achieving a lot of wealth or status and then using that leverage to get hot women. It works better in cities like Miami and New York where a lot of women are transactional. The vast majority of men aren't going to achieve that wealth or status. They...

I would say Peak for men is 28-35 (although some men can extend it and for some men I seen their peak in high school and college 18-23). If a man was locked in, in his 20s in his 30s he looks young but mature enough to be more confident and understand nuance, and also yoru income increases...

I was thinking of something like this. It's a high threshold you'd have to reach, and most 18-23 year old women would still not be comfortable with a man who is more than five years older.

I do think this is a cope, but my interpretation is that the peak potential of a man is probably in his 30s/40s, maybe up to 50 in some cases. An older man who has aged well and is good looking, fit, charismatic, masculine, wealthy, resourceful, high status etc WILL be at his peak and he may...

It just seems like most men have given up. Yeah, things are tougher now, but the fundamentals you listed are still tested and true. A buddy of mine was overweight in his early 20s, making $12 an hour working for TCF Bank, and struggled with women. Fast-forward to 35: he makes six figures and has...

I think @Bokanovsky addressed this previously a bit but let me quote him again for more context (and so also I don't misquote him) Adding on in my own words and opinion @Bokanovsky feel free to disagree here. It's not just OnlyFans girls or athlete chasers who have access to millionaires now...

I was reading this, and it got me angry. :mad: https://slate.com/advice/2026/06/dear-prudence-chat-ancestry-test-shock.html https://archive.ph/nfca8