Well said just like the food pyramid the **** we were taught growing up is bs!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Right on!
RoadKing_Rabbit
Senior Don Juan
There are 'crazies' everywhere in life. This isn't an exception. No news = good news. That's just how it is. "Look at these people! They're doing some cool stuff! He's a great guy!"
"No one cares, what are we angry about today? Oh, yeah! RAWR!"
Seriously, all we can do is be the level headed ones and offer advice. Self improvement, life, acceptance of reality and wanting to bork hot women and maybe something more is apolitical, non religious and amoral. Although I will admit, you're often going to catch a harridan from hell if she has political views that vary wildly from your own.
"No one cares, what are we angry about today? Oh, yeah! RAWR!"
Seriously, all we can do is be the level headed ones and offer advice. Self improvement, life, acceptance of reality and wanting to bork hot women and maybe something more is apolitical, non religious and amoral. Although I will admit, you're often going to catch a harridan from hell if she has political views that vary wildly from your own.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
What you say is true the problem is the old saying the loudest are a small minority are now becoming a loud majority
I don't disagree with you, I think modern men are soft, and lazy. There tons of stat's of young men not wanting to work, when you ask why they say they can't find jobs but UPS, fedex, contruction jobs are always hiring. When I was growing up working those jobs even for a short while was par the course now everyone wants a gucci office job making 6 figures out of college
A lot of men will get left and it's not because of feminism but their own laziness and low t levels
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
speak on it
Fortune_favors_the_bold
Master Don Juan
A lecture presented as a documentary.
No documentary can be taken serious when done from simpy boomers or women (unless succesfully married one with young sons).
He is the kind of men that would tell a zoomers with a well achieved useful degrees that it's his fault if the doesnt own a house or has a wife yet and he should be smarter and more ethic in his choices.
Regarding many manosphere contect creators, many of them take existing real problems and acknowledge them but go overboard with the solutions.
Also dealing with women and dealing with the economical system is connected but its not the same set of issues.
No documentary can be taken serious when done from simpy boomers or women (unless succesfully married one with young sons).
He is the kind of men that would tell a zoomers with a well achieved useful degrees that it's his fault if the doesnt own a house or has a wife yet and he should be smarter and more ethic in his choices.
Regarding many manosphere contect creators, many of them take existing real problems and acknowledge them but go overboard with the solutions.
Also dealing with women and dealing with the economical system is connected but its not the same set of issues.
