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  1. H

    Most Women Under 30 Have Slept with 70 Men or More ... While the Average Guy Gets Laid Once Every Year

    Women do lie about their body counts, and women could effectively have one different guy per day if they really wanted to. But the logistics of that is a lot harder to pull off, not to mention women's mentality with anxiety stop them from going out with lots of guys to begin with. However, we...
  2. SW15

    Michael Sartain: Approaching Strangers is Dead

    @MatureDJ had multiple factors working against him, some of which I can piece together from various posts over the years. 1. Height: @MatureDJ is 5'4"-5'5" and in the lowest percentile of height. This is the biggest factor that has hurt him. I've experienced women discarding me over height and...
  3. SW15

    Michael Sartain: Approaching Strangers is Dead

    It's going to be a challenge for a 40 year old man to pick up an attractive 22 year old at a grocery store. He would have be an exceptional 40 year old in terms of both looks and money in most cases. A 22 year old woman could get a hot guy near her own age, so an attractive 40 year old man means...
  4. B

    Women over 30 are Damaged Goods

    Pity you didn't run your fantasy of bagging a near or post-menopausal gal past this prof... They might've been more successful at enlightening you to the errors of your thinking than we have
  5. H

    Women over 30 are Damaged Goods

    Do you know how difficult it is for a 30 year old to get pregnant? Not from my experience [even though I've came inside plenty of 30+ year olds], but from experiences given by married folks who married late. They have to try a lot before they can get a child. Meanwhile, women below 30 get...
  6. G

    Women over 30 are Damaged Goods

    I'd need a citation for the claim a woman has lost 90% of her eggs by age 30. 30-something pregnancies are way too common for me to believe a 30 year old has lost 90% of her eggs (Yeah, I'm aware 90% doesn't mean 100%...but 90% is high enough there would be way fewer 30-something pregnancies if...
  7. CoolWave1331

    Michael Sartain: Approaching Strangers is Dead

    Meeting women through friends is the safest way. There is a greater chance you will get somewhere because the woman's shield is down. If a woman introduces you to her friends or let's say you are invited to party she throws - you can freely talk to the women there because the assumption is you...
  8. G

    Less Loyal: Women or Employers?

    As my counselor says "If you've met one person with autism, you've met one person with autism" (In other words, every autist's case affects him or her differently. No two autists are the same) I don't do well when there's too much stuff happening all at once, yet am excellent at hyper-focusing...
  9. SW15

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    I think there are many low quality men out there. I see the majority of men are average quality. I see a lot of men with bachelor's degrees and mediocre quality jobs/careers. Physiques are mediocre. As far as personas, they are betas. I see a lot of "nice guys" that could use some more edge...
  10. B

    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    Nah, they prioritized playing Dungeons and Dragons and f-cking around on The Atari, over activity which stood to REALLY enrich their lives. They were forerunners of the sort of fellas described here 9:00-the end Not prioritizing your own self-care isn't the same as "falling behind the...
  11. G

    Dudes, gals, and entitlement

    I'm aware dressing like a 30-something or 40-something suburban dad isn't ideal. All I'm saying is dressing like a suburban dad around the same age as me isn't as much of a cooch-repellent as dressing like a 70 year old grandpa (so, compared to some of my outfits, 30-49 year old suburban dad is...
  12. SW15

    My Ex started an OnlyFans

    This is relevant. This becomes more relevant for men who are married/live together with girlfriends and the relationship is longer than 5 years. Wives, long term girlfriends, and mothers tend to pick out boring but acceptable clothes for their husbands, long term boyfriends, or unmarried sons...
  13. CoolWave1331

    Women favor monogamy. Men favor polygamy

    This realization came to me during my University days. I went to College in Illinois and lived on campus. I would play up the i'm from Minnesota angle to sound "exotic" (LOL I have family in IL), i'd meet girls in class or parties etc. Was during pillow talk the most interesting conversations...
  14. Barrister

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    I consider cold approach “cold” - I have zero idea who the women are I’m approaching. These are usually in a bar setting or if I’m out and about shopping or what not and strike up conversation with a woman I’ve never met. But I don’t know them whatsoever. Warm approach to me is anything where I...
  15. SW15

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    In the past 15 years, more and more men have made online dating (both at the tail end of the website era and with swipe apps) their primary method for getting women. Bar approaching has been declining for that 15 years. It's gotten more noticeable in the swipe app era. I've had a hard time...
  16. C

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    the tinder threads on bodybuilding.com from 2012-2014 ish were legendary. The good looking members (not just ripped but handsome) got absolutely insane results that would make any PUA coach cry into his pillow lol. It was like a free prostitute app for a while and the stories were funny as hell...
  17. SW15

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    It seemed easier to get dates with early Tinder, but I experienced numerous "one date, no sex, no second date" occurrences in 2013. :mad:
  18. B

    Get off the Dating Apps Now

    Early Tinder was great...it came out when I was a sophomore in college. Everybody understood the assignment.
  19. SW15

    "Are Dating Apps Really Stacked Against Men?"

    Do you have any thoughts on Caleb Jones' 5 Phases of Effectiveness Theory for online dating theory? https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/michael-sartain-approaching-strangers-is-dead.284242/page-4#post-3161473 Phase One: Early Adopters Phase Two: Hyper-effectiveness Phase Three: Normal...
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