Search results

This is super true as well. Another thing that baffles me about women is that despite them putting so much emphasis on how others might percieve them, they have a remarkable limited understanding of how others actually percieve them. Funny story: A girl told me she was fed up with her ex...

I do genuinely think most women don't understand even themselves, never mind other women. They often don't know what they want. They THINK they want A but really want B. Women are often quite sympathetic but they lack empathy. For those who don't know the difference between sympathy and...

You tackle the issue from a pure logical point of view. And from a pure logical point of view, you're right. But emotions aren't always logical. I don't know what else I can say about that. Ever since I joined the manosphere and became red-pilled, I've been fighting against my emotions and the...

I know and I do. But that's the entire problem. When I feel like I should ghost on a girl, I'm not necessarily worried about hurting her, I'm more worried about hurting MYSELF. When you love a girl and care for a girl, ghosting hurts, it's hard, it's easier said than done and it makes me wonder...

Because I don't have nor want instagram. Call me old fashioned but I think instagram, facebook, twitter etc. are all dumb things. I know women care about this dumb stuff but I don't and I don't feel like using stuff I don't like just because women put importance on this dumb sh*t.

What you say Poon is all obectively true, no arguing about that. But I'd like to say that this mindset doesn't come naturally to men. The reason why "beta males" exist and are the majority isn't because of some feminist conspiracy or social programming, but because it's an innate part of our...

Hey cool, I see one of my comments made it into your OP as a quote. Nice! Good post, good thread. Interesting read and a good summary of everything important in the DJ bible.

Sounds about right. And sounds like that's probably going on with my date right now. I know her ex contacted her again at the end of our date. I was annoyed but didn't think any of it because he's a sour, fat, deadbeat loser on wellfare who just can't let her go even though she's trying to move...

Also very true. Thanks guys. Over the last week I was putting everything I ever knew about game and about women to question because of the situation I'm in (doing everything right yet the girl out of the blue going cold) but reading this thread makes me feel a bit better and less confused.

Thanks bigneil I needed to read this. I'm in a situation now EXACTLY as described in your OP. Met this girl online, spoke to her for months, we had great and interesting conversations. Eventually we went on our first date, it was amazing, we really had good vibes and it seemed like this was a...

Is it just me or does the OP look like it's written by a leftist feminist millenial woman with neon-blue hair?

My best friend is a psychologist and this is what he has to say about it: "Extroverts are people who recharge and gain energy from social interactions, when they are with other people, introverts are people who recharge and gain energy from alone time, when they are by thenselves, that's it...

Sure, that's one way to look at it, and that's perfectly valid. But what if the first woman you get into a relationship with is a good match and someone you might be able to spend the rest of your life with? Would you throw that away just so you can taste other "dishes"? Think about it...

DHV is all about being an interesting person doing interesting things. That in itself is a rare quality these days. So many guys just do the same old things; they work, hit the gym and go clubbing to pick up women. That's not interesting, every guy with just an ounce of knowledge about game does...

Lots of assumptions. I agree that being in an official relationship you have no feelings for is stupid, but you assume that the OP doesn't have feelings or doesn't want to develop feelings for his SO. If he didn't have the feelz for then why would he have made it "official"? Putting the p*ssy...

Nope, 'been a member since 2014, it says so on my profile. I've read the entire bible in 2013 before I became a member and I've been in "the game" since you were only 9 years old. What part of what I said didn't make sense? The part where I said he shouldn't bang other girls after going...

I'd advice against spinning more plates when you're in a monogamous relationship. Well it depends on what you define as "spinning plates" I guess, but seriously, don't cheat on her after making it "official", that's just a **** thing to do. If the OP wants to sleep around he shouldn't have...

Based on the first date, I wouldn't say I'm in a grey area, at least not when it comes to getting laid. Getting laid is not the issue, she's definitely interested in that, but I potentially want more from this girl than just getting laid and with regards to that I am indeed somewhat in a grey...

How is she gonna prove she's still a virgin? For all we know this could be one big scam. In fact, a girl with her looks who tries to pull this kind of ****... yeah, definitely a scam. She's not a virgin and she isn't worth $400k, no woman is, but she definitely isn't.

Nice answers everyone! I wanna make my question a bit more specific by applying it to a specific situation: Right now I'm dating a girl I met online. I got her Skype and phone number rather easily, we Skyped a lot (voice + webcam) and texted a bit, but she can be extremely slow with her...