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Hello, What do you think if there's a single girl you're interested in but who still has his ex in FB relationship status and has posted a few pics with/of him? We've went out on dates a couple of times and she said it's because she's tired of men approaching her online so she uses the status...

yeah, that would be nice in some cases. in my case there's no particular behavior of her that made me want to end it, it's just that we don't connect spiritually and I don't know how to explain it without exuding a sense of superiority and sounding judgmental.

Should you give full disclosure of why you want to end it, or you just go like "I just think this won't work out."? Assuming you haven't been with her for long, maybe 3-4 months.

OK so I laid it down to her, basically saying we're not on the same page (yet) regarding our perception of boundaries and she said fine if you want mine to match yours, with a slightly annoyed tone, without any effort to convince me that nothing will happen between them or at least the slightest...

*Title edit: Is it sick to prefer being dumped to dumping? I just don't want her to play victim and has our mutual friends turn against me. I don't care about protecting my ego and such.

thanks, you guys put some sense into me. I'll talk to her and if there's a slightest resistance or disrespect I'll probably end it or start detaching myself.

why else would you run yourself into a wall if it's not related to infidelity though. but anyway, it's only been 2 months and this is the first case, so I'll just redefine the boundaries (I admit they're rather vague and no specifics about going alone with a male friend).

why? if she intended to cheat she wouldn't have told me that she's going out with him and how he acts to her. threat to our relationship (if not stopped). yes, we're exclusive, but only since 2 days ago. what if she just sees him as an innocent guy friend? but I'll talk to her about this and...

Hello guys, Last week my gf told me casually about a new guy in her dormitory and that they've talked quite a few times. Yesterday she told me she's going to watch a new movie with him. At first she intended to go with the other guys but they're either not interested or have already watched it...

but without bringing up the problem she wouldn't know what i'm "punishing" her for. moreover, I'm not her Facebook friend so she probably assumes I didn't see the pic.

Thank you, but that's with the assumption that she'll ask the question and there's no certainty when. Until then, can't I do anything about it? At least on the basis that she has shown clear contradictions/inconsistencies between her words and actions.

Hello, First of all, pardon my English if it's confusing. So I've been dating this girl for 2 months, we're not exclusive yet but things are already intense, so to speak, we're basically gf/bf without the label. Last month all of a sudden she told me that a few days before she met casually with...

Hello, Is it ever OK to ask whether a girl you're dating is still in contact with her ex? Say, they broke up only a few months ago and you want to make sure she has completely severed the ties and recovered from the breakup.

Looll, a good thing that you're not like the majority of the members here.

They were actually good friends before he decided to make a move. Tbh I don't find him as a threat.

Hello, So this girl I'm dating/seeing likes to tell me about a man who's approaching her, but in a complaining/ridiculing way, eg. "He asked me about you and our dates, it's really awkward", "Look at these cheesy compliments" (while showing his texts to me). Is this a "yellow" flag? What do you...

Hi everyone, Long story short, I got to know a girl, we met once and texted often. We got along great and I decided to make a move. She said that she had a bf but has had asked for a breakup two weeks before, but the bf kinda begged not to leave him, revealing that his mom was sick with cancer...

If there's a girl you're interested in that has an admirer who threatens to kill or harm anyone that goes near the girl, would you still go for it? This is a situation I'm currently in btw.

People say don't be her therapist. But what if a hb is venting about her toxic relationship. This is happening to me and it's definitely a relationship she should get out of. I'd like to tell her that but then remember one of "the rules": don't be her therapist, don't give advice. But this girl...

the thing is i don't have any game, i'm just busy, lol. but i get your point.