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I think I f****d it up

djjug5

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I've known this chick for a couple of weeks. She's actually a friend of a girl I was trying to hook up with and that didn't work out, so now I've set my sights on her friend. We started playing the text message game, and then talking on the phone and eventually went out a few times. I haven't even kissed this girl yet, but the other night I was drinking and I told her that I love her. (stupid), she told me that she likes me a lot but she doesn't want to be my rebound girl because she knows that I got dumped by my ex a few months earlier.

So, now she doesn't call as much and she doesn't answer my text's most of the time. I think I should say F*** it, but on the other hand I really like this one. SHould I just cut contact for a while and see what happens?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Take a break for three weeks (no messages, no calls, nothing), then call her to chat.
 

dannowillbookem

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call and say sorry for your idiotic statements (hey u were drunk...u can get away with it) and then do what the other guy said. lay off for 2 or three weeks.
 

Javelin44

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dont call her to say sorry. lay off for 3 weeks and then call to CHAT. then call again a week after and ask her out one more time and go for kiss.
 
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