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Sounds very similar to the situation I'm in, other than the age difference. That could be a huge barrier if you're looking at her in long-term prospects. It all depends on what you want from this (sex, future relationship, etc.). If you're like me (and fancy a girl who isn't someone you'd want...

Alright, here's the scenario. There's this girl. We interact on a pretty friendly/flirty level most times we're together. I've initiated very light kino (touched her back, shoulder) on her a couple times which she responded positively to. Tonight, we were sort of kidding around and she hit...

I'm about your size, so I do have an idea of what you're talking about. First of all, you have to find things you're comfortable wearing. That would be the most important thing. Your clothes should compliment your personality. Stick with what you feel good with. There's nothing wrong with...

Practicing on the sister seems a little creepy to me. I can't even imagine trying out 'moves' on my sister. Dude, there are many other places to practice. Go out there in the real world and practice on other women (old, young, unattractive, attractive, etc)!!! Every place you go where there...

Well, you can bite the bullet now and wear braces OR you can wait a couple years and look at getting porcelain veneers. I think the reason your ortho doesn't want to do bonding is because your teeth are still developing. Veneers are usually done for cosmetic reasons in older patients...

neat post :)

That's what I was thinking. I haven't really hung out with her but she does seem keen on hanging out on a very casual basis with a couple other mutual friends. I guess I should've added that part, heh.

I was just wondeing what everyone's thoughts are on hanging out with a girl whom you have no immediate opportunity with (bf factor) but do have a mild interest in? How do you balance between hanging out with her but not falling too deep into the friend zone (so that any future possibilities go...

I don't think there's anything wrong with complimenting a girl on her looks. Just don't overdo it... and make sure it's done with confidence. Nothing worse than complimenting a girl if it comes across as cheesy or creepy. BTW, that currency quote is great!

I was in a similar situation with a girl who was on the supposed outs with her bf at the time. Looking back on it, I was really stupid for believing her lies of wanting to be with me. Was a big headache that I'll never fall victim to again. If she really did want to be with you, she would...

I'd advise you don't do this. Totally agree with the last couple posters. Just cuz they want to bang you, doesn't mean you have to! There'll just be alot of awkwardness (and possible drama) if you did decide to go thru with this. Very unnecessary.

Yeah, looks like that did backfire a bit. Putting your headphones on & zoning out would make it look more like it bothered you rather than looking confident. Oh well. Better luck next round, right???

Tough to say. There's this girl I know who is constantly playing with her hair when I'm nearby. I don't take it as anything significant but yet it might be. There are many other signs to look out for too. Just go approach the girl if you sense any interest!

That's pretty crappy. Sorry to hear that.

The times things ended badly, have usually been because we end up misunderstanding each other. Our personalities clash. They always wonder why I didn't feel like going clubbing or drinking or whatever; I always wonder why they felt the need to every weekend. I know that's not a great example...

Well, I'm a bit younger than 30+. In my mid-20's but I'll take a stab at this question, if that's alright. I guess when I was younger, I would always seek out my opposite (more extroverted than me). While I've aged a bit, I realize that's not something I really want. The times I have been...

The more I think about it, the more that last point makes sense. Anyway, I'm gonna try not to overanalyze this anymore. Always more fish in the sea, right?

Thanks for your kind responses. Although I love the advice about avoiding her, it is almost impossible to. The thing is, we work in such close proximity. It's literally a small room confined to two people, so avoidance is difficult when we work together. I can't really just turn my chair...

I think it depends on the girl who you're talking to. Remember, there are quite a few girls online who are there because they are shy and would rather have things move at a more comfortable pace. Some of these girls might not like the pushiness and stop talking to you altogether. I do agree...

Hey everyone, This is my first post here. BTW, I think this site is really good and there is alot of good information here. I've been stopping by for the past few days with much interest. Hopefully you won't be too harsh on me. Anyway, here is my situation... There's this girl who I...