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Proceed as you are! I agree with the other guys here. Chicks use this boyfriend thing all the time. There's a difference in how it is used, and in your case... it's being used to test you. Girls who genuinely aren't interested will shut you down with no room for intepretation. Keep on...

elor, I can relate to that story somewhat. Albeit the end result was nowhere near as successful. Similar situation happened a week ago. We were at a bar. I wanted to make a move but she started blatantly flirting with that guy I mentioned. I wanted no part of the game, so I left a bit...

Guys, thanks for the quick responses. I know I have to take some sort of action very soon. This is just a horrible state of mind to be in. I feel confident enough that it will be resolved, which is a good thing! Some more details on this. We have somewhat of a close relationship. People...

Yes, and no. Yes, cuz I think I made the mistake of falling into the LJBF zone. She apparently is interested in some other dude at work. But no, technically not out of the question.

Having a bit of a problem and feel stuck. I have a bad case of oneitis with a girl at work, who I see a couple times a week. It's really hard to avoid/ignore her since we don't work in a large area. It also seems like dating other girls hasn't cured this trapped feeling. So what's the best...

Actually now that i think about it, there's no point in dwelling on this stuff is there? Just felt a little downed cuz my game took a bit of a hit last night. Next time out, will be a good time.

That's kind of what I figured, Rollo. I have to teach myself not to become a pawn like that in the future. Drives me bananas knowing I fell for it, but hey it's a lesson learned. Why would she have proceeded to flirt with me before that time (alot of deliberate body contact, etc.) then? This...

So I was at a bar last night... all my buds and a chick (interested in her) who was hanging out with us for the 1st time. Anyhow, she asks ME to go play some vid game with her. At this point, I've kind of been ignoring her most of the night, and finally agreed after I was settled in. Just...

why are you going for a chick who's taken?

Yes, we are dating. And yes, I've jacked one out, haha.

I'm kind of seeing this girl. Nothing too serious at the moment but we have discussed the possibility of pursuing more someday. Well, here's the issue. Sometimes I know she's got things on her mind (not about us in particular but other things going on in her life). She's told me of her best...

Funny to come across this post at this time. Recently, I went on a couple dates with an AW, who I had known for a while. I knew she had a whole bunch of problems (mainly with her father, etc.) but stupidly I went into it without thinking of any future consequences. Low and behold, I pulled...

Hm, well I guess you guys are right about me going for her. Just didn't see it that way before. That's part of the problem then cuz I definitely don't want to get trapped into that sort of a mess. Your suggestions are good though. Perhaps some sarcasm and C&F is in order... That, I can do!!!

What do you do when a girl constantly mentions her bf to you? This girl ALWAYS seems to bring him into the conversation, which can be very damn annoying. We'll be talking about something (a totally random topic), and she'll slip in the "my boyfriend blah blah blah" out of the blue. I thought...

It's always a bad idea to express your feelings towards a girl you're interested in. But hey, if you want to destroy any chance you might have with her, by all means take that route. You really do need to get rid of this one-itis. Just take a step back. Ignore her or at the very least, cut...

Speaking as a Korean male, I vote 'No'. I don't think this is necessary at all. Making something like this seeps of insecurity. Not to mention the very notion of it is racist at heart, something that is definitely not needed here. As someone pointed out before, why not have guides for...

I'm not a big Star Trek fan but your point is well-made. Excellent post.

You just killed any chances of getting with this girl. You never tell a girl "i like/dislike you"...ever! That was a really dumb move, so no the tables did not turn.

I'll have to agree. It sounds as though she knows she has you by the strings. You sound very infatuated (at an unhealthy level) with this one girl. Correct me if I'm wrong but that is NOT the DJ way!!!! Stop over analyzing everything she does. It'll destroy you if you keep doing that. If...

It all depends on the person. If you notice her doing the same with other guys/people, then it probably means nothing. If she's just doing it with you, then yeah she might be interested. I wouldn't put alot into the whole name calling theory. Personally, I use names in conversations...