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would this come across as arrogant or just too persistant
you: would you like to come chill or hangout iwht me sometime
girl: sorry, ive got a boyfriend
you: well i dont see a ring on your finger, im not askin you to marry me, just hangout wiht me, seems like youd make a good friend

would somethin like that work pretty good with a girl with a boyfriend
 

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requested said:
would this come across as arrogant or just too persistant
you: would you like to come chill or hangout iwht me sometime
girl: sorry, ive got a boyfriend
you: well i dont see a ring on your finger, im not askin you to marry me, just hangout wiht me, seems like youd make a good friend

would somethin like that work pretty good with a girl with a boyfriend
That line itself isn't going to do a DAMN thing. What's your backup plan if she says no? What you should be worrying about is your game before you say your pitch. A ****y witty line isn't going to make her want you.

There are three reasons a chick will say boyfriend
1. She actually has one
2. She's coming up with an excuse to be rid of your ass.
3. She has interest in being with you but she says she has a boyfriend. She says this because she wants to make it your fault so she won't feel bad going out with you. "Oh that guy said let's hang out, I only went for the ride."

Just some advice for your closing line: Say you want to hang with her and make an excuse to hang with her. Don't ask her.

"I just got a new TV! Come over and help me set it up and we can watch the new angelina jolie movie."

Get her alone and that's all folks. As far as what you should say beforehand, that's the hard part...
 

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If i was her boyfriend i would stump your face in
 

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Phat said:
If i was her boyfriend i would stump your face in
If it was my girl then that ****ty line would insult me more than the actual act, when guys try that **** with my girl thy at least buy her something before getting rejected.
 

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requested said:
girl: sorry, ive got a boyfriend
You: Wow thats great! how long have you been with him?

usually it is not very long, and trust me, 90% of girls who are with their boyfriends aren't fully satisfied of their relationship.

her: oh about 6 months.
you: wow, it looks like he has you pretty tied down!
her: what do you mean? OR no! i'm my own person, i can do what i want
you: thats cool, because i'm the kinda person that when I meet someone cool, i dont pass on the chance of getting to know them better because of a totally irrelevant reason.
her: yeh you are right! i guess we can get to know each other better
you: good girl!

You will be surprised how well telling them that they are being controlled by their boyfriend actually works!

:) :cheer:
 

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Leave the taken chicks alone, ffs!

Rule 1: Stay away from chicks with boyfriends! ... What the f*ck is the matter with you people and going for chicks with boyfriends? Are you THAT heartless and stupid to go and try ruin a relationship and STEAL a girl away from some other guy? Why do you need to do that to someone? Why do you need the extra effort? Why do you need to complicate things for yourself? There are plenty single chicks out there waiting for you to go and pick them up and here you are trying to get with some other guys chick. "Don’t do upon others as you wouldn’t want them to do upon you" ... How would you like it if some guy thinking he is the shiznezz starts flirting with your girl and then steals her away from you? (Lets just say that YOU were the AFC in the situation) ... How would you feel? Here there is a girl you have fallen in love with and everything seems to be going well and then one day your girls runs off with some other guy.... The answer as to how you would feel is quiet obvious.

Just leave the girls with boyfriends alone, there are more than enough single women out there to pick from.


Laterz...
 

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True indeed.

Even if you're caught flirting with a guy's girl... if the guy sees that, the chick is just as good as a player... thanks to you. In which case... let us know when you get your face smashed in for being a dimwit.
 

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~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Just leave the girls with boyfriends alone, there are more than enough single women out there to pick from.
I dont agree with that at all. Girls who have boyfriends dont always stay with them indefinately. So they break up and some point.

The way I see it is that if a girl has a bf, and still agrees to see you again and go out with you, she is looking to change bfs! And if you meet a girl of high value, stuck in a bullsh*t relationship with a loser guy.... then why the hell not????

My belief is that women are generally very stupid, so they do stupid things like going out with losers. Sometimes they just need a little push in the right direction.... :D
 

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This isn't ethics class boys. First of all he's coming up with a gameplan if she gives the boyfriend excuse. She could definitley be lying so STOP assuming that by pushing through that resistance he is doing a rotten thing. Even if she does have a boyfriend and this guy doesn't bang her, some other dude will. There are girls that go out to clubs every weekend and make out with dudes while their boyfriend is clueless at home. This isn't kindegarden, if the guy knows what he wants, let him do it. Discussing how to pick up chicks itself isn't very righteous so picking up a girl and having her cheat on her man comes with the territory.
 

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Let me explain myself further...

To all of you that said that they have and/or CAN get with chicks with boyfriends, missed my point completely. I am not saying that one cant get with them, I am saying that it is against what I think is the right way to go about doing things, in general. I am very against f*cking up some afc's relationship just because I CAN. To me its a heartless and selfish act. Just because there ARE those sl*ts out there that are willing to cheat, doesn’t mean that you need to help them, regardless of the reason that they are willing to cheat, be it that their boyfriends are losers etc, or if their bf's are too stuck up with work to pay their gf's enough attention, they are still bf and gf, and as far as I am concerned, that’s considered cheating.

I'm sure that most of you here that have nothing against making girls cheat on their bf's... But thats only because you have never experienced the feeling of being cheated on... But I have been cheated on once before, and trust me, it feels as bad, if not worse, than getting stabbed in the heart. And f you HAVE experienced it, and yet still make girls cheat on their bf's, then as I said above, in my opinion its a heartless and selfish act, regardless of the situation.

Anyways, this is just something I feel strongly about and I expect a lot of you to disagree with me on this subject, but I will stand by my point of view, and I will say that I am 100% against any form of cheating, weather YOU are the one doing it, or you have a part in making someone else do it, in my eye's its heartless and selfish.

Anyways, each to his own I guess:up:


Laterz...
 

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guys, im not trying to get her to cheat on her boyfriend necesarilly or break up with him, all im doing is if she gives that excuse, which it isnt really an excuse she has a boyfriend ive seen him onfacebook, im just trying to not be awkward if she says that, or maybe invest for after they break up, they arent that serious, like a couple weeks or something,
 

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Espi said:
Bro, no one MAKES a girl do anything....she chooses to "cheat."

You know what he meant. At least I hope you do, Mr. Semantics.

He meant "helping her choose to." A lot easier to decide to do something if someone is encouraging you to do so.
 
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Cruise said:
That cheerleader **** is suspicious...
Hahahaha - good one DJ Cruise, are you referring to DJ's Fash's :cheer: symbol -- are you insinuating he may be a homo???

Yeah, the cheerleader does seem out of place / out of context -- who is he cheering and for what purpose?

My smilies emoticons won't open!!! DJ fash did you put a voodoo hex on my smilies??? I'm sorry for what I said - now give me access to my Smilies!!
 
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:flowers: :D :cuss:

OK, I got them back --- thanks!:up:
 

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godsgifttowomen said:
To further illustrate my point...

Right now I'm havin a convo on AIM with a HB that has a borefriend. Here's what she is saying:

HB - (12:43:44 AM): my bf is so funny hes like falling asleep on the phone and im like i will let u go 2 sleep hes like no stay on the phone
HB - (12:44:03 AM): he wants me 2 stay on the phone while hes like passed out what a qt
Me - lol!

Many girls have boyfriends JUST to have boyfriends. She called him a qt!! ahhahaha


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What the **** does that prove?
 
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