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I think deeling with the awkwardness would be better than kicking yourself for not making a move! Go for it man and if it doesn't work out oh well you'll stop caring as soon as you start working on the next girl

I agree with you guys I think of thinking positive as a skill that you must learn. With any skill it takes practice to get better. Once you are good at it and get in the habbit it will get much easier. You just have to keep practicing! I know what you mean when you say it wears off. It happens...

Something that I have realized in the past couple weeks is how people respond to the different ways I act. This is not just talking about girls it applies to everyone. People are naturally insecure and I believe are not truly happy. They are consistently looking for people to surround themselves...

Also meditation really helps. Start out like 10 minutes a day and listen to some calm music (optional). Insence or a candle is also helpfull for meditation. Breath nice deep breaths and it helps you relax if you breath in through your nose and slowly out your mouth. Sit as comfortably as...

Have a list of positive thoughts or just have something to think of as soon as you start having negative thoughts. If you are in a really bad mood, some positive music works good to. Even if the the thoughts are not that negative it's good to just try and be more and more positive. The key is to...

Maybe you are just an ass?

Yep I agree.. Fvck her, that thought process that came out of the blue is because she all the sudden has other options and starts thinking through everything. Sounds like you were to nice and that makes em think since this guy thinks I'm so perfect maybe I can get something better? etc etc.

That was a problem for me also. Especially when I was nervous and not over my approach anxiety. I would just end up looking like a jackass but it was better then being just shy. Usually you stop being funny when you are over thinking everything. Just put a smile on and be observant of everything...

Congrats man.. I'm getting there it just seems like I go back and forth. Any adivice on keeping it 100%? it just seems like I still get in groves were I'm still pissed off!

Kino would of excalated the situation and broke that barrier. It is really hard to go from just talking to kissing all the sudden. You will usually get shut down also. When you are not touching or anything she is not in that mindset yet. Kino is hard to get used to doing but it works really...

Man, I had this same problem awhile ago and I have been working on it a lot. What I found it was my confidence and I wasn't projecting happiness. People only want to hang out, talk to and have plans with people that really lighten their mood! I have ruled it as a selfish emotion but I realized I...

Yeah man don't take a step back.. Sometimes it's easy to want to say Fvck it, but just use it as a learning experience. Your skin is now harder even though it sucks.. Try and look through what you did wrong and fix them for the next time. Start thinking was I to nice? Did I give her to much of...

Yeah thats is very true pectoralismajor. Not the same old dozen roses or some ****. I always make a card myself but I'm pretty good at drawing and ****e. The Ex loved em though. Then something like he said

Sounds like your still giving her to much control of what to do. I would probably throw in the towel. I agree IGetit, next time wait a little bit to call her a couple hours late or maybe the next day and say something like "I was planning on going to so and so if you would like to join you...

It's not worth your time bud, and it really won't make you feel much better in the long run

Yeah that was my problem at first, I was worrying way to much what she was thinking. That is my main thing that I learned, just assume attraction and be an leader. Do you think the freeze out for a while is a good idea? I thought it might come of as I'm pissed that she is talking to other...

Alright so I think I might be dealing with my oneitis but I'm not sure if its over yet. When we first started dating I was vvvvvery afc and I went back and forth from being smooth to afc. It was realllllly a good learning experience because every time I was to much of a "nice guy" did not lead...

Sounds like to me all you need to do is just be man and stop thinking about what she wants to much. The I dont care attitude just says that you are secure and know what you want. The girl doesn't want a wussie and there is a lot of different ways to portray that. Be a leader, be in charge etc etc..

Go out and just start smiling and saying hello to strangers and start up light conversations. It doesn't have to be all hot girls but it will get you more comfortable. When it comes to talking to people, always talk on the exhale and act like you are talking to the person behind them. It's ok at...

Man.. I would be the fvck out of there and I am 21 let alone try some approaches..