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    Becoming chill- the community has improved my life

    Good Sh!t man, I am just reaching this point also... I completly agree and try to tell everyone that I know about how its just building up your ego and self confidence. I'm in the earlier stages of this but I have been excited for every intereaction that I have with girls, I love it and I love...
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    Field Report Concert (one hell of a night)

    Thanks man, It definitely was a good confidence booster! I have always never liked the single life, well at least until now! Today I realized that. I am finally having fun and not just trying to get into the next relationship. I am feeling good and I am loving the responses I am getting from...
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    Field Report Concert (one hell of a night)

    Yep its long.. I have still been progressing and loving it! Last night I went to a concert and even though I didn't really care for the bands that much I had the best time. First off I went there with six people five of which I didn't know (five guys and one girl. On the way there they were...
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    20 year old virgin in college. should i be focusing on girls?

    If anything focus on yourself and school. When I say this I mean building your inner confidence by going to the gym, and using positive thinking. If you do this and truely adopt the theory "I am a great catch" girls will flock to you. NEVER focus on getting girls!Girls are just a bonus to you...
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    How to not be standoffish/get girls to feel comfortable?

    That is good advice your friend gave you, I like it. This also applys a lot to other people to (not just girls). I always treat the bartender like an old friend and build some social value...
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    Still a virgin at 27... advice?

    Why are you guys just talking about whether he copied a post? Who gives a sh!t, this thread is about giving him advice not making fun of him
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    Results speak louder than words

    There has been other stuff that helps a lot also. Whenever thinking negative thoughts and not wanting to approach I either try to think of the great catch theory or more frequently BE A MAN and not a wuss.. That just it GIRLS DO NOT WANT A BOY JUST THAT ACTS JUST LIKE THERE GIRLFRIENDS (CARING...
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    Still a virgin at 27... advice?

    Jared, To me it sounds like you need to figure yourself out and build your inner confidence. A lot of the girls like the muscular guys mainly because they are confident! I think the main purpose of going to a gym is not building your muscle it’s building your confidence. How do you be...
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    Puahate.com and other bullys that make fun of u when u try to improve yourself

    I can't stand it also.. I notice if I mention it at all to friends that I believe NEED IT (AFCs) they make fun of me or look down on me. I have started ignoring that completely because it affects your inner confidence man.. Hell they think they are just "happy" the way they are! BullSH!T they...
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    Results speak louder than words

    It is great stuff.. And yes the hardest part is keeping the thought process going. I think of thinking positive as a skill, like any skill you have to practice and continuously work on it. I'm just getting to the point where I have had control of it completely. It used to just come in waves...
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    Results speak louder than words

    I’m still in my first month of finding this site and finally starting to change my life but the progress already is amazing. Going out this last weekend was an experience like no other times before. Instead of getting caught up in my mind and being very self conscious I was happy for a...
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    gf calls too much... getting bored

    You are dealing with the girl version of an AFC! Fun isn't it? I had a really hot girl like that but I couldn't take it! I ended it but the nice thing was she was so addicted to me it was an easy booty call.. She would drive two hours just if I asked her to. These girls are good lessons to...
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    Stirred Up The Hornet's Nest Over At Gp.com with my "Tips"

    Wow... Fvcking awesome.. Posts like these are the only ones people need to read.. Not how do you open or that bull ****! Just fvckin grow a pair and live
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    A Tribute To The Nice Guys

    How about a cheers to letting the nice guy in you die? I'm tired of all that **** that she talked about.. It's time to be a fvckin man! :kick:
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    Need your opinion on this

    Stop thinking is she interested! That will not help you at all, you send out AFC vibes(lacking confidence). If you like her just assume attraction and you send out the right vibes. Be confident and keep reading the stuff on here man. Also make sure that every once in awhile you wait till she...
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    Embarrassed

    It is all in the head man. Like you said your heart was racing and your thoughts were probably also. At first you are probably putting to much pressure on yourself. You must relax and stop thinking how you want to make it so good for her, you want to last, you don't want to suck etc etc...
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    wtf is WRONG with me haha I need a push from you guys.

    could add on the end of it "cause I was starting to think you were" to add a little more humor. But yeah that sounds pretty good
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    wtf is WRONG with me haha I need a push from you guys.

    Yep, and smile! I know I have problems doing it to when someone I think is hot is looking right at me.. I end up with this half assed smile that probably looks fake as hell(I'm working on it).. Just go up and break the ice, and for the first meeting do it when there is a time restraint. Like...
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    wtf is WRONG with me haha I need a push from you guys.

    Yeah but in our society it is expected for the guy to make the first move, so you have to do it man. What if she is doing the same thing to guys in other classes? Then they make the move first and there you are SOL.
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    wtf is WRONG with me haha I need a push from you guys.

    Dude your probably borderline creaper! You need to make a move before she starts flaking. You said it yourself you need to strike while the iron is hot. What your showing is lack of confidence to her, and that is not how you want to start things out! Next time you see her go straight up to her...
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