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    Common law wife bringing ex, to do some repairs (PLEASE HELP))

    http://www.unmarried.org/common-law-marriage-fact-sheet.html
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    Epic alpha...

    This is an interesting discussion. I think it would be helpful if we consider this within the social context. This boy threw a skins party. The purpose of the skins party is to get drunk, do drugs, have sex with any and everyone (as in both genders), then trashing the host's home (and...
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    Question concerning Child Support...

    Well, how about you have him an extra day every other week, since you won't be seeing him every other weekend. That way, you get a little of what you want and she gets a little of what she wants. And kids adjust just fine to going to each house, as long as you are each consistant in...
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    Question concerning Child Support...

    I do not know the law where you live, but where I live, once you stop being the "visit" person and the pendulum switches to a 50/50 time split - or even more where the child is with you more than her (which is what you are proposing) child support can be modified to where you would pay less...
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    Why can't mothers stay slim like in the old days?

    This is true. Most of the men in my age group look like they are 8 months pregnant. :crackup: They are walking heart attacks waiting to happen, too.
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    Why can't mothers stay slim like in the old days?

    One reason is diet. Meat was not so readily available - and when it was consumed it was all natural meat. Now there are growth hormones to make animals grow faster - hormones that we as humans hold on to in our cells/bodies when we consume it. Same is true for milk/milk products (mammory...
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    Your Thoughts...

    :crackup: Yeah, add it to the list: "He's Just Not That Into You... if he's gay" :kick: lol
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    Your Thoughts...

    Are you sure he is straight?
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    A Friend with Benefits Loses Her "Friend" and her "Benefits" Status

    Did your Doctor tell you it can take up to SIX MONTHS to test positive for HIV?
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    GF and I clashed today on the road... she stopped the car and got out.

    What happened that she felt she had to get out of the car to begin with?
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    Talking to her BF on phone while I fvcking her!

    I agree that what distinguishes human beings from the other members of the animal kingdom is our ability for rational thought. We also have the unique option to exercise choice/free will - but this does not equate to a lack of responsibilty for choices based on emotion, whim, or false...
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    Talking to her BF on phone while I fvcking her!

    When I hear about these kinds of happenings, I always think of the saying "He (or she) that lieth down with Dogs, shall rise up with Fleas"
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    gf dont like sex..will she?

    I do not think that my advice will actually heal your relationship - but I do think that taking these actions may help you to see the true nature of the relationship challenge you are experiencing so you won't find yourself in it again :) I think it may be a good idea if you move this...
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    LTR Attraction Rekindle Advice

    I have a tendency to want to the "why" of a situation. I believe that by simply addressing a drop in her interest (a symptom) rather than addressing the "why" (the cause of the "illness", if you will) it is a waste of resources/energy. I think to only address the symptoms is an ineffective...
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    LTR Attraction Rekindle Advice

    Please give specifics of how she is demanding/what is she demanding? (The nature of the demands will reveal what is going on inside her.) These things are not said in a vacuum - what is the context of your conversations when she says this - she is responding to something you have said or...
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    I cheated..

    My reflections: You have now set the frame that it is ok for her to "forget" (not have it "hit her", as you say) that she has a boyfriend. You have set up the dynamic that it is ok for each of you to put your own personal urges and needs ahead of the needs of your partner and the relationship...
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    I'm starting to feel like no one except my parents care (rant!)

    She wants you to lead in how to solve it - she may have offered three ideas, but you are her Man - you decide how you want this handled and communicate your decision to her. :)
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    Girlfriend acting stange

    hmmm... what do yopu WANT to ask her?
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    Girlfriend acting stange

    What kind of communicating occurred during this week?
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