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Statement: Love and fear are like two dogs fighting. Question: Which one will win? Answer: Which ever one you feed. (Interceptor, you amaze me).

MNIN - are you saying that, in truth, sexual relations with an ex is the same emotional experience for you as "meaningless" sex with a FWB person or a one night stand?

levels of: attraction, interest, commitment. All are interwoven. Yes, all are fluid and can be lost - especially if there is poor communication, inconsistancies, lack of opportunities to create trust and demonstrate one's trustworthiness. The more consistant a man (and the woman) is - the...

I think this is a great observation, Francisco. It is when men do not value the input/feedback of the woman who is more process oriented (I am going to take that is what you mean by "focused on real-time drama ") and incorporate that with their amazing skill to "analyze" the potential future...

That is very gentlemanly of you, thank you. (and just so everyone is clear on this: "gentlemanly" is NOT an AFC trait :rolleyes: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I did, I just added to my post/edited while you were writing me. Again, my apologies.

You are correct Francisco - this is my error :) and will I be even more amused? I assumed he was still talking about the girl at the beginning of the thread. However, it seems from what I have been able to read, that he indicated to the girl who has "passed" on his offer of "friendship"...

is there a "best " possible way to find out your partner has betrayed you? :crackup: I don't know why, but this just made me laugh so hard! Of course she doesn't want you back - she may have missed who she thought you were and wanted to reach out to that illusion because she still...

I am sorry I do not have time to read through all of this - but it seems to me what you are wanting is not just friendship with her. If her interest in you is still something other than friendship, she would not agree to this. If you have behaved in a way that has damaged trust beyond...

I agree about Home Depot. It's as if the Invasion of the Body Snatchers has occured there. WHERE ARE THE EMPLOYEES?

I like the first one.

Women often experience insomnia due to a lack of magnesium. Magnesium helps regulate the melatonin in your body. Hope this helps :)

Great question! Speaking for myself: On your basic question of regret for not approaching men I find attractive - never. I don't do initial approaches. Not being bold enough and honest enough to express and act on my true level of interest in a man once we were seeing eachother, out of...

One of my favorite movies is All About Eve - wonderful car scene I will link below. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPo6N16xP6Q The following quote is found at about # 6:50 in the youtube link: "Funny business, a woman's career, the things you drop on the way up the ladder so you can...

Depends on the woman, Latinoman. There are some women who walk away from everything. They are not interested in the spoils. That was never what they were there for to begin with.

I agree Latinoman. I recently told Purple Haze in another thread to not marry a man who she shares no deep passion with, as when all other attempts to connect may fail in a marriage/relationship - the bedroom is where you can find yourself back to eachother. Rollo, I just re-read your...

Re Emotional: By emotional availabilty - I meant they are not bound to the past. Either through still pining for a former love or so embittered/damaged they cannot emotionally be available to experience a relationship in the present. I did not mean he and she are to emote in the same way...