"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What i said to a girl about ****ing chad and disrespecting me

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It is well know in modern culture women will en up having sex, casual hookup whatever with certain tyes of guys when they are young and then when they are older attempting a ltr wth other ttypes. This is well known you guys know what im talking about...

This is a big gripe by men in the mainstream so im sure some ppl will like my message..

But those casual relationships and hookups is leaving women really bad in terms of their actual headpace, emotions, condidence skills etc...

and the main reason they do it is idk, to follow other women, for the convenience, whatever, bcos at the end of the day, its just a normal guy they fantasize as a chad, but all he may have is height and a some muscle etc, but in normal relationshop in all aspects even game, sex appeal masculinity there is nothing special there..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is a "alpha"?

Let's assume you're at a restaurant and ordering a coffee. The waiter messes up, and it spills on your white shirt. Maybe you even got a light burn.
  1. Make a scene, use some insults and threats too. Surely this will show the people that you are not be messed with!
  2. Laugh it off, insist it's no big deal. The waiter feels embarrassed to make such a blunder. You sympathize because "everyone could have made the same mistake."
Who do you think seems like the bigger man? Having power but deciding not to use it makes all the difference.
2.

To be clear when I say alpha i mean a man with higher abiltiies who can be a leader but may not be..lets just say competence is the most iportant skill, but competence across traits/disciplines, ie a successful or competent man
 

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its only men like me who are on this level that human thrvied, the normie guys today their world would never survive you are basically cucked but fools still think they can talk big its just cos the gov hasnt given you smackdown yet it is planning
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its only men like me who are on this level that human thrvied, the normie guys today their world would never survive you are basically cucked but fools still think they can talk big its just cos the gov hasnt given you smackdown yet it is planning
We need to go back to the days of Timur the Great.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OP you sound unhinged; please get therapy. I'm serious
wdym i got a therapist it aint started yet...but i need to express myself to females and the culture, i need to express this to females...

actually they like when i do that...they like it when a guy is real...anyway i just put this up here cos the real stuff is not online most guys too scared to say anything i thougt let me put this here the comments and replies not gonna mean much
 

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anywa im not even interested in this pot anymore dont know why anyne is responding obviously you guys aint got nothing better to do than annoy me how about you go learn game..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wdym i got a therapist it aint started yet
anywa im not even interested in this pot anymore dont know why anyne is responding obviously you guys aint got nothing better to do than annoy me how about you go learn game..
Obvious rage bait.

Since the dawn of the internet, I never really understood the appeal of trolling. Wasting the time of other people and ultimately of yourself. I should also reflect on myself, why I didn't notice sooner and wasted my time with my previous post.
 

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Obvious rage bait.

Since the dawn of the internet, I never really understood the appeal of trolling. Wasting the time of other people and ultimately of yourself. I should also reflect on myself, why I didn't notice sooner and wasted my time with my previous post.
This isn't a troll job this, is a half-baked meltdown.

No half measures, @kavi. Melt the cheese.
 

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So i told this inanna chick, and i can get others, i said she gonna have to go public about the failure of chad tinder the female game and fantasy and how im a real man, she basically did something stupid thinking some female fantasy chad could take my spot it turned into a dud quickly and she left shamfased but i wasnt there in the group at the time, i was doing my own thing moved to another city wasnt talking to girls in this period it wsas 2.5 years since tht failrue for her i didnt really know about or much i knew we had drfited then i gave her a humilation for some stuidness when i swae her shortly after it had ended, she was surpisedd to see me, confused, dazed kinda, then gravitaes towards me like on autopilto trying to get attention i kinda humilated and her and left that group left her kinda rejected, humilated but i didnt say i knew about teh guy, now 2,5 yrs afteer that i hadnt mudh thought about her contacted my friend and then he startss mentioning her when i had the meltdown it was the first time processing what had happened with the bf thing

she been waitin 2,5 yrs to hear from me again, the bf thing she did was failure very quickyl, i only just got the details, seemed she managed to play me into a safe psotion after i invested a good amount of time and effor,t but she did too, it was online talking tbh in a group like a friend group we had it ws an active online space we had yt channels also so the time soent was fun it didnt cost me anything thats why i like to work in social circles i was just talking to her for fun but it got deeper but after she kinda put me on hold so we drifted...

then shemoved city and so did i, it was interesting the details, we werent in touch,on teh cnew citty she got herself a bf im sure ike a chad or a fantasy she had im sure then she calls him a bf to evreyone online, i am not there, but it ould only have been a low value relationsyio, dont knoow who or what about him, then she puts me down on sstarting this but i didnt know, it was a failrue and humilation for her quickly, probably a 27-33 chad type or seomthing,serial dater or maybe i am paranoid but she lets out this fantasy ...

so bascually she ownd herself she thought she was a big girl now join te big leagues i was just a guy talking online now she can get the chad bf she now confident and moved out but she likely got played by some fool with average game it was a humilatain for her then she sees me soon after on a server dicrod she gravitates towards me makes a fool out of herself i reject her leave the server she dnt see me for 2.5 yrs then i contact my friend he gets me talking about her and we are here she been desperate to hear from me for 2.5 yrs lonely in a new city my it wwent all downhil for her after that first yr in the new city now she 30 feeling bad when i came in i am dominatning now more than b4...
 

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it kinda looks like when we talked first she was real and good, after we had invested she kinda drfited i didnt see her much , so idk what she was doing, it seemed then she planned her move, and the idea to get a bf and enjoy sex with chad, with me being like a commitment guy ro something kept in a safe place..

but the bf ses/relationship fantasy turned into a dud, she just got played, may of thought she can get a real relationship or soething meaningful, her only experience talking to me online, me running game online, txtm voice chat group chat videos etc but m game was tight as in IRL i had her hooked all the way but then when it got stable she decuded not to meet me take IRL but get tht chad bf im sure she must have thought she would forget me or some **** idk tbh i think it was just a hookup but she fancied it as a boyfriend emotional tangbile thing but i had run game on her and some normal tinder chad is not gonna move me anything so it was a dud and her head was spinning andshe was confused like how a woman is when she has an empty sexual experuence and left with nothing so her chad sex fantasy relationship only made her head spein and confusion ina new ity lonely when she sees me in the server i didnt know she was there i came in to talk in sme group then she was in that confused post empty relationship state i made her snap out of it she gravuates to me but acting all confused and weird im not into her cos we been drifting for few years i aint seen her so i played it cool she makes a fool of herself i leave the server then she dont see me she is lonely missing me the clock is ticking no confidence to try a new bf just thibking about me missing me then she hears from me again via our friend recently they push to talk about her i reveal i know everuthing including her failed sex relationship and how she disrespectd me i keep her haning give her hope otherwsise she has nothing if i leave her now she just hoping she can hear from me again she has to wait maybe 1yr or 2yrs best she can hope for nothing else out there..
 

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Keep her tethered in the meantime though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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