"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What i said to a girl about ****ing chad and disrespecting me

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It is well know in modern culture women will en up having sex, casual hookup whatever with certain tyes of guys when they are young and then when they are older attempting a ltr wth other ttypes. This is well known you guys know what im talking about...

This is a big gripe by men in the mainstream so im sure some ppl will like my message..

But those casual relationships and hookups is leaving women really bad in terms of their actual headpace, emotions, condidence skills etc...

and the main reason they do it is idk, to follow other women, for the convenience, whatever, bcos at the end of the day, its just a normal guy they fantasize as a chad, but all he may have is height and a some muscle etc, but in normal relationshop in all aspects even game, sex appeal masculinity there is nothing special there..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is a "alpha"?

Let's assume you're at a restaurant and ordering a coffee. The waiter messes up, and it spills on your white shirt. Maybe you even got a light burn.
  1. Make a scene, use some insults and threats too. Surely this will show the people that you are not be messed with!
  2. Laugh it off, insist it's no big deal. The waiter feels embarrassed to make such a blunder. You sympathize because "everyone could have made the same mistake."
Who do you think seems like the bigger man? Having power but deciding not to use it makes all the difference.
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To be clear when I say alpha i mean a man with higher abiltiies who can be a leader but may not be..lets just say competence is the most iportant skill, but competence across traits/disciplines, ie a successful or competent man
 
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