"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jhonny9546

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Yo men! Which are your favourite songs in terms of how the lyrics talk about this man life?
I personally love "My way" and "Avrai"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scaramouche

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Hi Johny,
For real Mens Songs I go To Peter Dawson singing Kipling Songs like "Mandalay"...For I've a Maid who's neat and Sweeter,
In a green and pleasant land.
or "Danny Deever"
All the young recruits are shakin'
an' they've earned their beer tonight
After hanging Danny Deever in the morning".
 

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I'd say a going classic that seems to hit all those topics is "Cat's in the cradle." Other honorable mentions are "I'm Tryin'", "Count bodies like sheep to the rhythm of the war drums", and "Freedom of choice."
 

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This is controversial:
John Mayer is one of my favourite artists in terms of "How the music He produce, sound"
I love the instrumentals.

But
, when you look closely at what content He have built his career on, it's actually an artist venerating his multiple oneitis.
He made incredible masterpieces (I don't like the lyrics at all), with the help of his "love" towards all the women he never forget.
That shows how weak He is, and how many men out there would listen to this kind of music without understanding the message.

I think the medium it's just the difference here, because there are also many other famous artits that have made their fortune, their career, based on that, but the message it's always the same, shared by painters, sculptors, musicians, etc

Btw, this latest song actually make it clear

Curious about what you think.
 

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Curious about what you think.
I like the rhythm, tone, and overall song. never heard it before.

music follows our mind and our mind follows our music. lots of cultures developed chants just for this reasons.

think... how do you feel after listening to a few tracks. is that how you want to feel.

same message; different feel.

 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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