Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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44-year-old receptionist and single mother of 4, thinks she's "too hot and young looking" for most men

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The delusion of this one - what does SS have to say? Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc? I do. I wonder whats causing their narcissism and high, inflated opinion of themselves? Is it simps? media?

Maybe its just deliberate RageBait media for clicks.

Its 9 years ago since the story, she'll be 53 today. She looks her age. Nothing above average. She's not even slim (go to 0:04 and you can see looks chunky), she has a chunky upper body and lines on her neck (covered by thick necklace). And she's been made up for the camera (1hr pre-recording in makeup, skin cream etc). No more than a 4/10 to me. Hot women in their mid 40's are incredibly rare, like 1 in 3000. Very few. She's not one of them.

Plus 4 kids alone is gonna be a detriment to most men... even if said woman was a 8/10 Supermodel, affluent and had a Nanny.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BaronOfHair

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@Identikit_Radiohead "Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc?"

I regulalry encounter folks who refuse to investigate the veracity of their own beliefs, regarding both themselves and everything else, yeah. This gal is actually a fairly mild example of said phenomena
 

BillyPilgrim

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Lol in Atlanta those women are a dime a dozen. Interesting that both these birds are from London.
 
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I had a coworker in her 40s who was obese, her looks were below-average (which is saying a lot coming from me), she dressed like a lesbian, yet she had a vastly exaggerated sense of her worth

As for what causes this type of ego? Simps/dumpster divers. The coworker I described had an easy time getting laid (which was likely what gave her the exaggerated sense of her worth)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She's like a 3.5 at best and knowing she has kids and dried up ovaries bumps her down to a 2.
3,5 is a tad too much/low LOL

She is like a 5 /6 on a good day..minus 4 kids...still a 2 you were right.

Forget this post! :lol:
 
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