"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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44-year-old receptionist and single mother of 4, thinks she's "too hot and young looking" for most men

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The delusion of this one - what does SS have to say? Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc? I do. I wonder whats causing their narcissism and high, inflated opinion of themselves? Is it simps? media?

Maybe its just deliberate RageBait media for clicks.

Its 9 years ago since the story, she'll be 53 today. She looks her age. Nothing above average. She's not even slim (go to 0:04 and you can see looks chunky), she has a chunky upper body and lines on her neck (covered by thick necklace). And she's been made up for the camera (1hr pre-recording in makeup, skin cream etc). No more than a 4/10 to me. Hot women in their mid 40's are incredibly rare, like 1 in 3000. Very few. She's not one of them.

Plus 4 kids alone is gonna be a detriment to most men... even if said woman was a 8/10 Supermodel, affluent and had a Nanny.

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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@Identikit_Radiohead "Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc?"

I regulalry encounter folks who refuse to investigate the veracity of their own beliefs, regarding both themselves and everything else, yeah. This gal is actually a fairly mild example of said phenomena
 

BillyPilgrim

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Lol in Atlanta those women are a dime a dozen. Interesting that both these birds are from London.
 
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I had a coworker in her 40s who was obese, her looks were below-average (which is saying a lot coming from me), she dressed like a lesbian, yet she had a vastly exaggerated sense of her worth

As for what causes this type of ego? Simps/dumpster divers. The coworker I described had an easy time getting laid (which was likely what gave her the exaggerated sense of her worth)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's like a 3.5 at best and knowing she has kids and dried up ovaries bumps her down to a 2.
3,5 is a tad too much/low LOL

She is like a 5 /6 on a good day..minus 4 kids...still a 2 you were right.

Forget this post! :lol:
 
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