"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

BRUTAL rejection: "we're not a match for a romance ... you're very safe to be around, confident, intelligent, funny, sweet, attractive ...

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Gamisch

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2022
Messages
5,358
Reaction score
6,271
All this to say, you aren't sexual enough around me.
This happens when you refuse to get the subtle hints thats she doesn't want you.

She basically tries to cover the truth from all angles leaving no room for further questioning. "Yes you are a good boy, yes the date was okay-ish , but you GOTTA STOP CHASING ME. I respond every three days en YET you keep asking me out. I met a new man who is way better than you".

I especially like the " different relationship goals". Like, how many forms of relationships are there?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
17,036
Reaction score
19,406
This happens when you refuse to get the subtle hints thats she doesn't want you.

She basically tries to cover the truth from all angles leaving no room for further questioning. "Yes you are a good boy, yes the date was okay-ish , but you GOTTA STOP CHASING ME. I respond every three days en YET you keep asking me out. I met a new man who is way better than you".

I especially like the " different relationship goals". Like, how many forms of relationships are there?
Her goals: get fvcked hard by a guy who doesn't act so "nice and harmless" all the time.

His goals: "Be the good boy his mommy taught him to be around women".

:lol: :lol:
 

Mike32ct

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 22, 2007
Messages
8,412
Reaction score
5,176
Location
Eastern Time Zone where it's always really late
Some guys are too “clean cut” or “vanilla.”

They are fine on paper, decent looking, decent job, intelligent, and generally likable as a person.

But they get rejected or friendzoned because they aren’t “edgy” enough and don’t give off the vibe that they will bang her into next week.

You can’t really fake being a “bad boy.” If a guy isn’t that way, he has to just own it.
 

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,573
Reaction score
11,607
She was nice about it and didn't want to waste any more of your time. I'd be happy. It's only brutal because you are weak.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

HaleyBaron

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2021
Messages
2,764
Reaction score
2,342
I don't think it's healthy for men to try to be the ideal bad boy to get pvssy. The best advice is to just try to be a man and stop being agreeable with women. And for men who are too nice, they need to just go the opposite direction. I practiced that myself and women seem to do everything to try to get your attention. And that's all it takes. Unfortunately, some men get lazy and then get back into nice mode and they screw it up.
 

Barrister

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2018
Messages
2,858
Reaction score
5,096
Age
40
There was nothing "brutal" about this. I remember getting this kind of message way back in the day in college when I was blue pill and didn't understand why I was getting them. This is the "you're too safe and boring but soooo nice" variant of text message that chicks send to guys who don't get give them tingles and get them wet. It is about as canned a message from a non-interested chick you can get. Certainly not one you want to be on the receiving end of -- but not "brutal."
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
17,036
Reaction score
19,406
Some guys are too “clean cut” or “vanilla.”

They are fine on paper, decent looking, decent job, intelligent, and generally likable as a person.

But they get rejected or friendzoned because they aren’t “edgy” enough and don’t give off the vibe that they will bang her into next week.

You can’t really fake being a “bad boy.” If a guy isn’t that way, he has to just own it.
That's not even being a "bad boy", that's simply not being afraid to show you have a sexual side.
 

Dash Riprock

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Messages
1,849
Reaction score
3,702
Location
Mile High City, USA
Just be 6'2, skinny, lots of tattoos, long unkempt hair, no job, no car, no money, criminal record, and have addictions -----> Total Chick Magnet.

I'm only half kidding.
 
Joined
Mar 18, 2026
Messages
108
Reaction score
63
Just be 6'2, skinny, lots of tattoos, long unkempt hair, no job, no car, no money, criminal record, and have addictions -----> Total Chick Magnet.

I'm only half kidding.
400 weeks vs. 1 Meeks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Joined
Mar 18, 2026
Messages
108
Reaction score
63
I love these memes because they are so accurate.

An average white, non-fat guy spends 400 weeks (8 years) of hard work for a non-fat, ugly, 4ft9 short, weird looking Asian woman and a Hapa child. In your example the guy has gone to medical school.

Meanwhile, Meeks got model work and a girlfriend 1 week after leaving prison.
 

SpartanWarrior77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2016
Messages
514
Reaction score
417
Location
Europe
I love these memes because they are so accurate.

An average white, non-fat guy spends 400 weeks (8 years) of hard work for a non-fat, ugly, 4ft9 short, weird looking Asian woman and a Hapa child. In your example the guy has gone to medical school.

Meanwhile, Meeks got model work and a girlfriend 1 week after leaving prison.
The truth. We should add this to the Game Bible: Wisdom of Radiohead 1:11 :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: "weird looking Asian woman" - this is particularly true in the US for some reason. Likely due to the odd ethnic mixes (not a moral judgment - just a fun fact - which sometimes also results in very exotic beauties).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Top