MatureDJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This Woman Rejected All 5000 Men Who Applied to Date Her
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BaronOfHair
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Quote the article: "Most women complain about getting too many messages on dating apps. Vera Dijkmans had the opposite problem — she got exactly what she asked for and still wasn’t happy about it"
When Tyler Durden lamented the absence of war in The Post-Industrial West in 2000, entirely too many of us fellas just nodded our heads subserviently... A year later, we got our wish(20 f-cking years of what was essentially a 3rd World War. The likes of which still hasn't quite concluded), and yet we STILL groan: "There's no opportunity to be a warrior anymore!!!"
We're often willfully blind to the abundance which surrounds us
When Tyler Durden lamented the absence of war in The Post-Industrial West in 2000, entirely too many of us fellas just nodded our heads subserviently... A year later, we got our wish(20 f-cking years of what was essentially a 3rd World War. The likes of which still hasn't quite concluded), and yet we STILL groan: "There's no opportunity to be a warrior anymore!!!"
We're often willfully blind to the abundance which surrounds us
Gamisch
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I recently dealt with a woman like this.
It's a headache. There will be countless orbiters and ofcourse the stubborn crazy exes who she actually will use for all kinds of favors.
Women like this dont need OLD. Hence why the male female ratio is 70/30 . OLD would give such a woman more options , more headache tor her.
I dont know what to say. This is just life. When you start actually attracting women like this you know you're doing something right...
It's a headache. There will be countless orbiters and ofcourse the stubborn crazy exes who she actually will use for all kinds of favors.
Women like this dont need OLD. Hence why the male female ratio is 70/30 . OLD would give such a woman more options , more headache tor her.
I dont know what to say. This is just life. When you start actually attracting women like this you know you're doing something right...
Slowhandluke
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Slowhandluke
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regardless of how attractive she is, some guy some where is already tired of her shiet... and old age will catch up with her sooner or later...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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She is the type of woman who needs to be grudge fvcked in the ass and taught a lesson 
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MatureDJ
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Nah, I'd just spread those long legs wide, and pump away up the orifice that evolution has given us.She is the type of woman who needs to be grudge ****ed in the ass and taught a lesson
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Identikit_Radiohead
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average girl vs. hot girl
Cheeky_James
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I’d hit it before you.
you go girl! Reject those losers!
Broooootal bro.
dude be careful with those BP videos.. it’s just too much Brutal Truth man ;P
MatureDJ
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OLD is pretty much a black hole.
Identikit_Radiohead
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This MID thinks she's "too hot to work". The 10 million tiktok ****s/simps who followed her, gassed her up too much Absolute brainrot. Imagine dating her?
Absolute brainrot. Imagine dating her?Slowhandluke
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This MID thinks she's "too hot to work". The 10 million tiktok ****s/simps who followed her, gassed her up too much
only human
-the matrix
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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When I was younger and used to work at Victoria Secret, I met quite a few extremely sexy women that would never even dream of using online dating. Their instagrams would be private. But in person they were surprisingly easy going and attainable, even for casual flings.
I think online everything skews people’s perception of reality. This woman most definitely cannot attract 5000 high quality men in real life. In fact I am willing to bet most high quality men would be sick and tired of her intolerable ego.
I think online everything skews people’s perception of reality. This woman most definitely cannot attract 5000 high quality men in real life. In fact I am willing to bet most high quality men would be sick and tired of her intolerable ego.