You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women have ways to make themselves more attractive in ways men do not(or, makeup, nails, hair, etc...).
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
if women. have so many advantages, why do they complain so much about not being able to find anyone.. esp the vast majority or women who are 40?
Well, we're talking about dating, so I'm talking about dating aged girls. They have the advantage - if they decide to use those years to ho it up and squander their advantage, that's their problem.
AND since the government will take the role of Protector and Provider, AND because she now has more opportunity than ever before to Provide for herself, she needs the commitment even less. At times in the past, her very survival depended on that commitment.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Go to any nightclub on a Saturday night the vast majority of women in there couldn't care less if they get laid , yea some may be ovulating and will be down for some D but they ain't usually chasing it
The men on the other hand are usually lurking in corners creeping or running around like headless chickens trying to get laid
I know that game and I play it back. Girls playing chicken with me. I simply don't give them the attention at all cause I know they have three men on speedial and a boyfriend providing for them. I'm the prize and I can sustain ****ing them longer than the typical man. Though my plates are slim atm, I'm not even pursuing women like before since I've been progressing in my career. The women naturally are being drawn to me.Women are advantaged because there is a much much greater demand from men for sex
That dynamic alone means that women can to some extent sit back and let the game unfold a bit before making a decision on that male
Go to any nightclub on a Saturday night the vast majority of women in there couldn't care less if they get laid , yea some may be ovulating and will be down for some D but they ain't usually chasing it
The men on the other hand are usually lurking in corners creeping or running around like headless chickens trying to get laid
now as for how this translates into the dating market - in any form of negotiation the party who wants less than the other is in the seat of power
Women can afford to be fussier than men because they know most men want what's between their legs more than she wants commitment
It's OVER for Sub5Cels.