That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women have ways to make themselves more attractive in ways men do not(or, makeup, nails, hair, etc...).
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
if women. have so many advantages, why do they complain so much about not being able to find anyone.. esp the vast majority or women who are 40?
Well, we're talking about dating, so I'm talking about dating aged girls. They have the advantage - if they decide to use those years to ho it up and squander their advantage, that's their problem.
AND since the government will take the role of Protector and Provider, AND because she now has more opportunity than ever before to Provide for herself, she needs the commitment even less. At times in the past, her very survival depended on that commitment.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Go to any nightclub on a Saturday night the vast majority of women in there couldn't care less if they get laid , yea some may be ovulating and will be down for some D but they ain't usually chasing it
The men on the other hand are usually lurking in corners creeping or running around like headless chickens trying to get laid
I know that game and I play it back. Girls playing chicken with me. I simply don't give them the attention at all cause I know they have three men on speedial and a boyfriend providing for them. I'm the prize and I can sustain ****ing them longer than the typical man. Though my plates are slim atm, I'm not even pursuing women like before since I've been progressing in my career. The women naturally are being drawn to me.Women are advantaged because there is a much much greater demand from men for sex
That dynamic alone means that women can to some extent sit back and let the game unfold a bit before making a decision on that male
Go to any nightclub on a Saturday night the vast majority of women in there couldn't care less if they get laid , yea some may be ovulating and will be down for some D but they ain't usually chasing it
The men on the other hand are usually lurking in corners creeping or running around like headless chickens trying to get laid
now as for how this translates into the dating market - in any form of negotiation the party who wants less than the other is in the seat of power
Women can afford to be fussier than men because they know most men want what's between their legs more than she wants commitment
It's OVER for Sub5Cels.