"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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30 year olds hooking up with women who are in 50’s and 60’s?

Ricky

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This is a lot of it. A good looking younger guy is going to have a lot better luck with a 45 year recent divorcee who wants to relive her youth and get her freak on after years of a sexless marriage than he is with someone his own age. Neither party is looking for a LTR here, just some fun.
That exactly describes a woman i work with

i do think she tends to find guys without good options. She has a particularly needy and jealous boyfriend now but she says she kind of likes it. Even bad attention is good for her and possessiveness is a big change from her ex husband who ignored her and quit wanting to have sex with her
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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