“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What are the basics needed to create lust for women?
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
jhonny9546
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1)
Beauty it's in the eye of the beholder, so anything you would do will impact some women, while will push away some others. (polarization)
Put this in your mind.. I know it's hard, but You'll be chasing women that don't see you as a high value man. (hot and cold behaviour, weak ioi's)
It's a hard thing to understand as a male, since you could have feelings or just like that woman. (oneitis)
You should not pursue any woman if She isn't pursuing or just be attracted to You like You were the last man on this earth. (measure that with her admiration/respect towards you), and if you could catch her before she get AW by someone else, it's pretty amazing, but if you're like me, and you started to wake up later, you will have to deal with women who actually were and still attached to someone else emotionally. I'm in the hard route, but that doesn't mean I work for women, I actually raise my value as a man in my eyes!
And so:
2)
You cannot negotiate desire, but you can be the best man out there.
The best man you could become.
You could read the Bible to get some insights, but then, You have an entire life to discover which are your strengths and weaknesses.
There are many other points to consider, but go in small steps
Beauty it's in the eye of the beholder, so anything you would do will impact some women, while will push away some others. (polarization)
Put this in your mind.. I know it's hard, but You'll be chasing women that don't see you as a high value man. (hot and cold behaviour, weak ioi's)
It's a hard thing to understand as a male, since you could have feelings or just like that woman. (oneitis)
You should not pursue any woman if She isn't pursuing or just be attracted to You like You were the last man on this earth. (measure that with her admiration/respect towards you), and if you could catch her before she get AW by someone else, it's pretty amazing, but if you're like me, and you started to wake up later, you will have to deal with women who actually were and still attached to someone else emotionally. I'm in the hard route, but that doesn't mean I work for women, I actually raise my value as a man in my eyes!
And so:
2)
You cannot negotiate desire, but you can be the best man out there.
The best man you could become.
You could read the Bible to get some insights, but then, You have an entire life to discover which are your strengths and weaknesses.
There are many other points to consider, but go in small steps
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there’s wanting to and then actually doing it. for the wanting to, your question, it’s pretty much looks+body language. the good looking guys who have mass of girls lusting after them, know how to walk, position themselves, and mastered facial expressions to know how to ramp up that sexual desire. actually doing it depends on far more variables: her availability, timing, being at the right place at the right time and having some luck in ur favor. finally having enough game not to screw it all up.
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I think the OP is asking what is needed to create lust FROM women.
By the way, I was in Wal-Mart yesterday, and there was an opening at the checkout where some people go left and some go right. The girl ahead of me turned to the left, stopped her cart dead, locked eyes with me, and said "Hello". I was going right so I smiled at her, said "Hi", and went on my way. I had seen her earlier in the aisles, I remember. Later, it occurred to me "That girl was flirting with me". This just shows how oblivious I can be. I didn't care though, I have a girlfriend and I'm not looking to get into the game. The other thing that occurred to me is "She probably was looking for some guy to pay her rent" lol.
This is likely the truth, if you are looking for something long term. It's kind of a tricky balancing act, since men are expected to initiate. Some guys totally leave it to women to initiate, but that's a luxury most guys don't have, because they might have to wait 10 years in between girls showing some interest in them lol.
By the way, I was in Wal-Mart yesterday, and there was an opening at the checkout where some people go left and some go right. The girl ahead of me turned to the left, stopped her cart dead, locked eyes with me, and said "Hello". I was going right so I smiled at her, said "Hi", and went on my way. I had seen her earlier in the aisles, I remember. Later, it occurred to me "That girl was flirting with me". This just shows how oblivious I can be. I didn't care though, I have a girlfriend and I'm not looking to get into the game. The other thing that occurred to me is "She probably was looking for some guy to pay her rent" lol.
jhonny9546
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That is our man quality ahahha.
"Later" .. yes mate.. I do understand that..
I also miss so many hints
Every woman is different
I'm well-known on here for having bad luck with the ladies. Yet I got laid for free this weekend (I had to fly across the country to make it happen, yet the sex itself was free)
As for how I seduced her: By being my 100% genuine self. Before we even met in real life, she was already extremely lustful for me (and unlike the general pattern I've had in the past, she grew more intrigued the more she got to know me)
I'm at the airport right now on the way to fly home. She's already stoked for our next visit in September
So I'd say being your genuine self is the best way to create genuine lust. If you put on an act (where you pretend to be somebody you're not), you might get a 1 night stand, yet there won't be genuine lust on her part. Any "lust" she feels would be based on a lie (and there's no way you can keep the lie up forever)
I'm well-known on here for having bad luck with the ladies. Yet I got laid for free this weekend (I had to fly across the country to make it happen, yet the sex itself was free)
As for how I seduced her: By being my 100% genuine self. Before we even met in real life, she was already extremely lustful for me (and unlike the general pattern I've had in the past, she grew more intrigued the more she got to know me)
I'm at the airport right now on the way to fly home. She's already stoked for our next visit in September
So I'd say being your genuine self is the best way to create genuine lust. If you put on an act (where you pretend to be somebody you're not), you might get a 1 night stand, yet there won't be genuine lust on her part. Any "lust" she feels would be based on a lie (and there's no way you can keep the lie up forever)
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You are known for not being socially calibrated and having colourful discussions on here that include "prostitutes" from time to time but not for having bad luck with the ladies. Did she pay for the trip?
She didn't pay for the whole trip's cost (nor would I expect or even want her to), yet she at least covered about 25% of the cost of the hotel suite we stayed in (and we used her car for transportation, she treated me to dinner, etc)
Plus, the flight was free anyway (I used points)
We're a couple. We're going to do the long-distance thing for a while, yet her ultimate plan is to move by me
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We are all happy for you. You told her you used points?
Now is your time to speak-up since you have more credibility here and you can set the record straight.
Are you going to "break-up" with the pro things now that you have a real woman or are you maintaining that to stay active while your gf is away on long-distance? What was your operating concept with them....were they used as a tool to help you out until you got the real thing or is there still a craving/desire for that lifestyle? Did that hobby help you with this woman (ie learned any techniques that helped you in bed, took the edge off since you are used to already dealing with women, etc...)?
In other words, would you recommend that as a self-improvement tool where that helped you land this gf?