“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What are the basics needed to create lust for women?

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Title. What are inherently the basics to create lust for women? does anyone know what it is?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Beauty it's in the eye of the beholder, so anything you would do will impact some women, while will push away some others. (polarization)

Put this in your mind.. I know it's hard, but You'll be chasing women that don't see you as a high value man. (hot and cold behaviour, weak ioi's)

It's a hard thing to understand as a male, since you could have feelings or just like that woman. (oneitis)

You should not pursue any woman if She isn't pursuing or just be attracted to You like You were the last man on this earth. (measure that with her admiration/respect towards you), and if you could catch her before she get AW by someone else, it's pretty amazing, but if you're like me, and you started to wake up later, you will have to deal with women who actually were and still attached to someone else emotionally. I'm in the hard route, but that doesn't mean I work for women, I actually raise my value as a man in my eyes!

And so:
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You cannot negotiate desire, but you can be the best man out there.
The best man you could become.
You could read the Bible to get some insights, but then, You have an entire life to discover which are your strengths and weaknesses.



There are many other points to consider, but go in small steps
 
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What are inherently the basics to create lust for women? does anyone know what it is?
there’s wanting to and then actually doing it. for the wanting to, your question, it’s pretty much looks+body language. the good looking guys who have mass of girls lusting after them, know how to walk, position themselves, and mastered facial expressions to know how to ramp up that sexual desire. actually doing it depends on far more variables: her availability, timing, being at the right place at the right time and having some luck in ur favor. finally having enough game not to screw it all up.
 

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I think the OP is asking what is needed to create lust FROM women.

You should not pursue any woman if She isn't pursuing or just be attracted to You like You were the last man on this earth.
This is likely the truth, if you are looking for something long term. It's kind of a tricky balancing act, since men are expected to initiate. Some guys totally leave it to women to initiate, but that's a luxury most guys don't have, because they might have to wait 10 years in between girls showing some interest in them lol.

By the way, I was in Wal-Mart yesterday, and there was an opening at the checkout where some people go left and some go right. The girl ahead of me turned to the left, stopped her cart dead, locked eyes with me, and said "Hello". I was going right so I smiled at her, said "Hi", and went on my way. I had seen her earlier in the aisles, I remember. Later, it occurred to me "That girl was flirting with me". This just shows how oblivious I can be. I didn't care though, I have a girlfriend and I'm not looking to get into the game. The other thing that occurred to me is "She probably was looking for some guy to pay her rent" lol.
 
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