1)
Beauty it's in the eye of the beholder, so anything you would do will impact some women, while will push away some others. (polarization)
Put this in your mind.. I know it's hard, but You'll be chasing women that don't see you as a high value man. (hot and cold behaviour, weak ioi's)
It's a hard thing to understand as a male, since you could have feelings or just like that woman. (oneitis)
You should not pursue any woman if She isn't pursuing or just be attracted to You like You were the last man on this earth. (measure that with her admiration/respect towards you), and if you could catch her before she get AW by someone else, it's pretty amazing, but if you're like me, and you started to wake up later, you will have to deal with women who actually were and still attached to someone else emotionally. I'm in the hard route, but that doesn't mean I work for women, I actually raise my value as a man in my eyes!
And so:
2)
You cannot negotiate desire, but you can be the best man out there.
The best man you could become.
You could read the Bible to get some insights, but then, You have an entire life to discover which are your strengths and weaknesses.
There are many other points to consider, but go in small steps