“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If a woman gives friction or hesitation, CUT HER OFF!

jhonny9546

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because you tend to overlook the issue
We all experience a different reality based on what and where we live.
So maybe that actually appear dramatic to you, but it's actually "real facts" or "how life it's here for real"
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Well Jhonnie,
I know a few Italian Women,seem like most others one meets,the only exceptional thing is their Mothers taught them to cook!
I didn't know they had crocs in Italy
 

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Stickied for a while because guys really need to not waste time on disinterested women. Tell me what I got wrong.
Nah, you are 100 % right imo.

Yet iirc there still seems to ne this sentiment that there are EXCEPTIONS ti this golden rule...and that's where men lose.

A man should have a personal law. Rules set in stone. That means it shouldn't matter if she is an hb2 or hb10.

My experience showed me that as soon as you try to make exceptions, you're losing. The power dynamic shifts in HER favor, and makes you as a man look weak. Women can sense you want it too bad, which most of time means you have no other options.
 

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It’s 2026. She has men on the gram, sms, and every other communication platform hitting her up.

Treat it like sales, keep hitting up your leads periodically because eventually they may bite.

Automate it if you have to…
 

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It’s 2026. She has men on the gram, sms, and every other communication platform hitting her up.

Treat it like sales, keep hitting up your leads periodically because eventually they may bite.

Automate it if you have to…
A wise salesman wastes no time on weak leads, he courts only the golden ones.

Respect your time and EFFORt because someone who wants you will respect your time and effort!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This advice is a bit dated and won't work for most men. Some of my best lays, and my current girl, we're both acquired after a bit of resistance.

Once you start working in sales, you begin to understand these things much better.
 

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This advice is a bit dated and won't work for most men. Some of my best lays, and my current girl, we're both acquired after a bit of resistance.

Once you start working in sales, you begin to understand these things much better.
Fair enough.

However, from personal experience, women who showed low interest off the bat very rarely came around. I’ve only seen it work maybe 3% of the time(personally), and even in those rare cases it never actually went anywhere meaningful.

A top salesman doesn’t waste time chasing lukewarm leads. He has a full pipeline, so if a prospect goes cold he’s completely unfazed he just moves on to the next one. Pursuing a woman who doesn’t respond with real interest right away is a dummy mission. It burns your time and energy while killing your momentum.

Abundance mixed with indifference is what truly gets you the type of women who put in effort off the bat.
 
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