Mentioning that you’re dating multiple women will make you a ‘bad guy’ these days

[Travel memoir21]

I just posted some content at one of my Military Veteran groups and I mentioned that I was talking to multiple women and I got some backlash over it. I started getting some haters and started getting lectured why it ain’t right. I told them I follow The Bro code of only talking to single women, that I look for Christian and good people, and I will only get physical with them only if we’re hitched, and they just laughed at me. Both women and some femnazi white knights of a male. It seems like society wants total submission and wants men to be women’s b:tches and Men are second class citizens and can’t catch a break. What do you guy’s think of this?

 

[Solomon]

I don't bother going on relationships forums or reddit, it's a bunch of fraudlent people virtue signaling to appear better than they are
Also when i use to be super red pill (I belive in doing it like you although I stumble) I use to not talk to people about it in person as most people lacked nuance to understand intericate topics like these

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No it won't.

And if you are that afraid to be a grown man that doesn't simp to what a woman demands of you then you will simply be a doormat for her anyway.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Wanna know what makes you really unattractive?

Complaining that the world won't validate how you want to live your life.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I haven't found this to be true. F-ckboys who center their entire lives around bedding skanks are viewed with disdain, nonetheless that's nothing new

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Don't mention your love life. People already know what you're up to based on how you look & act.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Wanna know what makes you really unattractive?

Complaining that the world won't validate how you want to live your life.

Man, those American Founding Fathers were some ugly mofo's.

Too bad the world doesn't evolve without people pointing out BS.

Sorry if that ruffles your feathers dude.

 

[corrector]

I just posted some content at one of my Military Veteran groups and I mentioned that I was talking to multiple women and I got some backlash over it. I started getting some haters and started getting lectured why it ain’t right. I told them I follow The Bro code of only talking to single women, that I look for Christian and good people, and I will only get physical with them only if we’re hitched, and they just laughed at me. Both women and some femnazi white knights of a male. It seems like society wants total submission and wants men to be women’s b:tches and Men are second class citizens and can’t catch a break. What do you guy’s think of this?

You are TALKING to multiple women and people are upset you are TALKING. We believe in no sex until marriage. People won't even consider that dating. Talking is not dating. You could talk to multiple AI girlfriends. Are people going to get upset that you are choosing to talk to real women rather than tech? I don't get that. People should be encouraging you are talking to real human being women.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I don't bother going on relationships forums or reddit, it's a bunch of fraudlent people virtue signaling to appear better than they are
Also when i use to be super red pill (I belive in doing it like you although I stumble) I use to not talk to people about it in person as most people lacked nuance to understand intericate topics like these

It's generally not a good idea to discuss anything "red pill" with people who are not your close friends. Especially in a group settings. These types of discussions inevitably bring out the white knights, who see them as an invitation to virtue-signal.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

It's generally not a good idea to discuss anything "red pill" with people who are not your close friends. Especially in a group settings. These types of discussions inevitably bring out the white knights, who see them as an invitation to virtue-signal.

This. 100%

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

What do you guy’s think of this?

A VETERAN's group no less? What a bunch of PVSSIES! Seriously! The last vet group I have been into could care less if you are a complete loser and get nothing right; you're THEIR loser and they'll do what they can to help you figure life out. They could care less if you have 2 S T Is and spread them with reckless abandon like an arshhole. He's THEIR arschhole. At least that's how a Vets group SHOULD be IMHO.

Sometimes all we've got is each other. Sometimes all we have is ourselves. Although, to be fair there IS something to be said about restraint in discussing overtly "red pill" stuff. Even my 'close' friends tend to crab in the bucket me in that regard. It's stupid. They can have their drvg addictions and/or jobs they hate.

Having multiple women you talk to or dating several people at the same time is not even immoral. I'd just leave it at that. If that's "red" pill, then hell. Seems like they're obsessing over what you are when they should remember something else FIRST. Same blood, same mud. Or sand. You get the fvcking point. They're vets, you're a vet.

IDK man, have you tried saying "you guys are effing poo-zays?" If they send you off or you wind up walking because they can't stomach those words, you've likely found the most soybeaned estrogen infused lickspittle bullet dodging wonders of miracles who made it through boot camp and a deployment I've ever fvcking heard of! HOLY CHR1ST!

 

[Scaramouche]

HI Travels,
"I follow The Bro code of only talking to single women"...What is this Brothers Code you refer to?

 

[Travel memoir21]

HI Travels,
"I follow The Bro code of only talking to single women"...What is this Brothers Code you refer to?

No dating married or women in relationships. I know it sounds so basic, but basic morals these days are slowly dwindling.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No dating married or women in relationships. I know it sounds so basic, but basic morals these days are slowly dwindling.

You will only know if they choose to disclose that. There are a significant number of women who are dating guys that are in one of those categories.

 

[OngBak]

It’s just a reality I see play out at university all the time. Women are often hesitant to show constant interest in public social settings because they are hyper-aware of the judgment and labels that come from both men and women. To protect their reputation, they carefully manage their public image especially when it comes to being attracted to a more confident, 'bad boy/lover' archetype like chain bracelet, muscular physique, necklace, wet curly wavy mid long hair, backwards cap, clearly a chad if you need one word to describe him from the manospheres perspective. They have no problem to talk to average guys at all. But once you’re in a private setting where that social pressure disappears, they completely drop the filter and are entirely open about what they want. Im that Guy.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Let this be a lesson: sometimes it's better to exercise self-control and resist the urge to share everything publicly rather than blabbing about whatever is on your mind.

Discretion matters. Whether online or in real life, discussing topics such as your dating life or love affairs with others often invites unnecessary opinions, criticism, and drama. It not only helps you avoid looking foolish if things don't work out, but it also spares the women involved from having to answer unnecessary questions or deal with unwanted attention.

There is a saying in my country that loosely translates to, "He who eats with their mouth shut gets to eats twice." The idea is that when you keep your affairs to yourself, you're more likely to continue enjoying them. The more people know about your personal life, especially your dating or sex life, the more likely they are to interfere, judge, gossip, create drama, or complicate things unnecessarily.

Some things are simply better kept private.