As a counter to someone's thread, race is very important. So much so, that I constantly see redpill guys and dating coaches all over the internet ignore it.
They addressed it, but dating coaches and red pill content creators are essentially snake oil salesmen, and when a question doesn't have a clean, marketable answer they just deny the premise entirely rather than engage with it honestly. That's not a rebuttal. That's a business decision.
And there's a pretty important distinction being glossed over here. I never said race was irrelevant to dating outcomes. There's actually decent data suggesting it has some effect. What I said was that blaming your race as the primary explanation for your failures with women is a stupid conclusion, and those are two very different claims. One is an empirical observation. The other is a cope that conveniently eliminates any need for self-reflection.
. Race realism is real. Women choose based on who looks like them and not. Familiarity and exoticness are two sides of the same coin. A white girl would rather have the white man.
This framing is just empirically wrong. People don't choose partners based on some deep seated racial loyalty. They choose based on proximity and convenience, and proximity historically correlates with shared racial background. That's a much more mundane explanation than people want to admit.
And the idea that cultural or racial mixing is some modern phenomenon is genuinely baffling to me. Hispanics as a group are a walking example of centuries of mixing between Indigenous, European, and African populations. African Americans have well documented admixture going back to slavery. White Americans went through their own version of this process where groups like Italians, Irish, and Germans were not even considered fully white for a significant stretch of American history and then gradually got absorbed into a broader white American identity. That happened within living memory for some people.
And that's before you even get to places like Latin America or South Africa, where the entire social and demographic history is built around the interaction and mixing of different groups.
The reality is that the overwhelming majority of people on earth are not walking around with 99% ancestry from any single ethnic population. That level of genetic isolation requires generations of geographic separation, which is why you see it in places like Japan that had deliberate and enforced periods of insularity. Almost everywhere else, mixing has been the default state of human populations for a very long time. Pretending otherwise isn't a serious historical position.
White girls and men are at the top of the dating hierarchy globally. Darker-skinned races are at the bottom
Says who?
You have to accept this before you can move forward. This is not a blackpill perspective. It's accepting reality so you can progress.
This just sounds like an inferiority complex, not accepting reality.
