Recent content by TheDarkSaint

Bach, Brandenburg Concertos. They are the PERFECT music for spending a saturday with your girl. Makes you look sophisticated without being too snobby. Mozart is excellent background music for dinner or wine. Most of the Romantic composers (1800's to the 1900's basicly) are excellent for...

Anger worked very well for pimitave man. If some other man tried to take his woman, his anger would fuel him to fight back to keep her and his offspring with him. Jealousy prodded males into fighting other males to spread his genetic material.

I've had quite a few people tell me that I look better with my goatee than without it. It depends on your facial structure. A goatee on me helps narrow down my broad face, whereas on my brother, who has a very narrow face, it makes him look hatchet faced. If you keep it neatly trimmed, most...

Thanks for the replies guys. It's nice to hear them. I'm planning on traveling quite extensivly over the summer. I'm headed to Japan in June and I'll be spending a great deal of time both in Denver and Oklahoma city. I know I'll have to choose between my job and a social life, it's just...

Guys, I'm about read to throw in the towl. I've lost interest, drive and motivation when it comes to dating. I live in a small town. It has 1,500 people in it. I'm the music teacher. The pay is reasonable, the hours are long, the prestigue is good (they like good concerts here) and I get...

Do not view college as a means to get a job. A 4 year university is a means to get an education, not job training. If you want job training, you need to go to a vocational school, where they focus on job skills instead of liberal arts knowledge. If you try to go out on a high school diploma...

You might try church. I don't know if you are a spiritual guy and I'm not advocating you go find Jesus and whack people on the head with a bible, but churches are social organizations that are full of very outgoing people. Most are very happy to have newcomers and can be a great place to...

I'd have to say the the emotional health of older men is diffrent than the younger ones. I'm very diffrent at 29 in dealing with issues than I was at 22. I've been there at 22 and I'm looking for responses from older guys.

As older guys, how do you guys constructivly handle negative emotions? It seems we spend a great deal of time on here talking about sets, closes, approches, going out and doing it, but to deny that we get angry, or that we are hurt, or depressed is very dangerous. I'm curious as to how...

Wait a minute. It is the person who reacts that has all the power. By making the first move, the man now has fewer options while the woman has more. She has the power to determine what happens next, thus power over the relationship. If this site is about confidance and being dominate, why...

True, you don't want to spend your life at "attention" :) But even "at ease" still looks more powerful than a slouch

There are some non-medical solutions. You need to practice relaxing. In doing so, you'll accept who you are and what you are capable of. Sounds like you were not comfortable with that girl. It might also help to realize that length isn't all it's cracked up to be. Also, try to date small...

There is a reason girls love military guys. The posture of "attention" is one of power. Remeber that, gentleman

Bobman, think about something. Sex is the most intimate form of communication you'll ever have with a woman. You instictivly know this, even if you've never had it. You've been told that having sex will ruin a relationship (forget about before or after marriage crap, you're brain really...

Instead of calling out another girls name, start calling out your own. I've tried it and the looks you get are priceless.